March 19th, Friday, Fourth Week of Lent

2 Samuel 7: 4-5a, 12-14a, 16, Psalm 89: 2-3, 4-5, 27 and 29, Romans 4: 13, 16-18, 22, Matthew 1: 16, 18-21, 24a

The connection between today’s readings was not immediately apparent to me, even after reading additional verses from each chapter. What theme emerges from what I found to be a contradictory and confusing mixture of scripture passages? Then I thought, “How many times have I offered a prayer and coupled it with a promise to God?” Today’s readings speak to the inverse proposition - God’s promise to us.

God promises us loyalty, protection and, through our children, immortality. “Your dynasty shall stand forever.” As a father of young adults, I witness their efforts to establish their own lives. I repeatedly catch myself and refrain from giving unsolicited advice or instruction on how to approach a given situation or challenge. But sometimes the mouth gets going before the brain closes the door. Today, I am reminded of God’s promise that he will protect our children, whom he has chosen. “I am with you always, until the end of the age.” We are challenged to put our trust in God, just as Joseph did when the angel appeared and announced his impending paternity.

All God requires in return for this promise is our faith. The readings stress it is not following the law that will make us righteous, but it is faith. Maybe the lesson of the day isn’t limited to reinforcing our faith in God. Perhaps, these readings are a reminder to have faith in our children, too.

Tim Murphy is married to Kathleen and is the father of four grown children. He has been a member of St. Raymond's for 28 years.