Isaiah 50: 4-9a, Psalm 69: 8-10, 21-22, 31 and 33-34, Matthew 26: 14-25
Tomorrow starts the Triduum! Thinking back on my grammar school days, Wednesday of Holy Week was a day of great expectation. It was the day my friends and I planned our participation in the three days to come. We planned to visit as many churches as we could on Holy Thursday. In those days we walked to each church so distance did limit us. Each church was more beautiful than the last. Good Friday was the reading of the Passion and veneration of the cross. Holy Saturday was rich in signs and symbols of the "passing over" of Jesus from darkness to new life. It was worth all the planning because it was indeed a spectacular time in our lives.
Today's readings from the Psalms speak of the people pouring out their woes, their suffering and pleas of "do not let me sink" (Psalm 69: 14), in the lament tradition, and yet they are unfailing in their trust knowing the Lord hears and never forsakes the needy. We all have suffering in our lives; how do we deal with it?
In Matthew's gospel we hear one of the best known gospel stories, the betrayal of Jesus. While at the table with his disciples, Jesus said that one of them would betray him. Judas replied, "Surely not I, Rabbi." and Jesus answered, "Yes, it is you." Judas had sold Jesus out for thirty pieces of silver. How many times have we played the Judas role in our lives? And reversing the scene, how many times have we been betrayed? Everyone knows how it feels.
Later Judas tried to give back the silver and undo his crime but sin cannot be undone or erased, it can only be forgiven. Forgiveness is not hard; we just have to ask for it! It is one of the greatest gifts our God has given us. Let us take time today to savor God's forgiving love in our own lives.
Dorothy McGurn, widow of Charlie, mother of seven, (one in heaven), grandmother of 11.
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
March 30th, Tuesday of Holy Week
Isaiah 49: 1-6, Psalm 71: 1-2, 3-4a, 5ab-6ab, 15 and 17, John 13: 21-33, 36-38
A quick glance at the calendar reminds us that we’re coming down the homestretch heading toward the events of Holy Thursday, Good Friday, and Easter. Today’s Gospel further sets the stage for what is about to occur.
But unlike a race, Easter will not be the finish; it will really be just the beginning. It will become the opportunity to gain the first real glimpse of just who this Jesus truly is and what his life has been about. We’ve heard his words and seen his signs done for others, but now we will come to see the unfolding of the Divine Plan.
Today’s first two readings emphasize that just as there was this Divine Plan for Salvation with Jesus at the center, the Lord God has created each of us with our own specific plan and purpose in mind. Our life’s task is to get in tune with that plan. Should we wander from that plan and purpose, the Lord God is there as the Psalm says to be our continuing protection and hope.
These readings remind us that Jesus knew the Plan and stuck with it. Can we continue to discover our individual plans and then live our lives following that guideline? That is our challenge not only for this Lent, but beyond.
Chuck Hemler - husband, father, grandfather, engineer.
A quick glance at the calendar reminds us that we’re coming down the homestretch heading toward the events of Holy Thursday, Good Friday, and Easter. Today’s Gospel further sets the stage for what is about to occur.
But unlike a race, Easter will not be the finish; it will really be just the beginning. It will become the opportunity to gain the first real glimpse of just who this Jesus truly is and what his life has been about. We’ve heard his words and seen his signs done for others, but now we will come to see the unfolding of the Divine Plan.
Today’s first two readings emphasize that just as there was this Divine Plan for Salvation with Jesus at the center, the Lord God has created each of us with our own specific plan and purpose in mind. Our life’s task is to get in tune with that plan. Should we wander from that plan and purpose, the Lord God is there as the Psalm says to be our continuing protection and hope.
These readings remind us that Jesus knew the Plan and stuck with it. Can we continue to discover our individual plans and then live our lives following that guideline? That is our challenge not only for this Lent, but beyond.
Chuck Hemler - husband, father, grandfather, engineer.
Monday, March 29, 2010
March 29th, Monday of Holy Week
Isaiah 42: 1-7, Psalm 27: 1, 2, 3, 13-14, John 12: 1-11
Today’s reading from Isaiah, “Here is my servant, whom I uphold, my chosen, in whom my soul delights” reminds us that God loves us dearly and is pleased with us. God calls on us to be images of Himself in our world. We have a mission to make the presence of God known to others beginning with those closest and dearest to us.
I feel we teach by example. My parents had a strong, humble faith which was passed on to my sister and me by their example. What was most important was how we lived our lives. They struggled through hard times, but their faith grew stronger. I remember Sunday afternoons when they would both sit in the kitchen and listen to the Polish Father Justin Holy Hour on the radio, when mom made her Tuesday novena to St. Anthony, and when they would kneel at bedside for night prayers.
As parents, we make the image of God real for our children on a daily basis. Early on, our priority has been to provide our children the opportunity to receive a Catholic education, just as our parents did for us. Our children attended St. Raymond, Sacred Heart of Mary and St. Viator. Now their children have graduated from or are currently attending St. Raymond and Catholic schools in Florida. Our grandchildren continue to reinforce their faith by being an altar server through high school, attending Mass weekly, belonging to Branches, and experiencing the teen mission trips.
Through the years our family has established lasting religious traditions: our holy water font at the front door (a gift from our son and grandson’s pilgrimage to Lourdes), our own Holy Thursday Seder, blessing Easter food baskets, our family May crowning of Mary, and breaking oplatki at Christmas. These family traditions have become very important and meaningful to our family. As our family has grown, so has the mission, and the challenges continue in our changing world.
In Isaiah, God speaks to each of us: “I am the Lord, I have called you in righteousness, I have taken you by the hand and kept you.” God is leading and guiding us to fulfill His mission and through His grace, the power to make it happen.
Join me in reflecting on this thought during Holy Week: “Live in such a way that those who know you but don’t know God, will come to know God because they know you.”
Ginny Neugebauer, married 48 years to Dan, mother of seven, grandmother of twelve.
Today’s reading from Isaiah, “Here is my servant, whom I uphold, my chosen, in whom my soul delights” reminds us that God loves us dearly and is pleased with us. God calls on us to be images of Himself in our world. We have a mission to make the presence of God known to others beginning with those closest and dearest to us.
I feel we teach by example. My parents had a strong, humble faith which was passed on to my sister and me by their example. What was most important was how we lived our lives. They struggled through hard times, but their faith grew stronger. I remember Sunday afternoons when they would both sit in the kitchen and listen to the Polish Father Justin Holy Hour on the radio, when mom made her Tuesday novena to St. Anthony, and when they would kneel at bedside for night prayers.
As parents, we make the image of God real for our children on a daily basis. Early on, our priority has been to provide our children the opportunity to receive a Catholic education, just as our parents did for us. Our children attended St. Raymond, Sacred Heart of Mary and St. Viator. Now their children have graduated from or are currently attending St. Raymond and Catholic schools in Florida. Our grandchildren continue to reinforce their faith by being an altar server through high school, attending Mass weekly, belonging to Branches, and experiencing the teen mission trips.
Through the years our family has established lasting religious traditions: our holy water font at the front door (a gift from our son and grandson’s pilgrimage to Lourdes), our own Holy Thursday Seder, blessing Easter food baskets, our family May crowning of Mary, and breaking oplatki at Christmas. These family traditions have become very important and meaningful to our family. As our family has grown, so has the mission, and the challenges continue in our changing world.
In Isaiah, God speaks to each of us: “I am the Lord, I have called you in righteousness, I have taken you by the hand and kept you.” God is leading and guiding us to fulfill His mission and through His grace, the power to make it happen.
Join me in reflecting on this thought during Holy Week: “Live in such a way that those who know you but don’t know God, will come to know God because they know you.”
Ginny Neugebauer, married 48 years to Dan, mother of seven, grandmother of twelve.
Sunday, March 28, 2010
March 28th, Palm Sunday
Isaiah 50: 4-7, Psalm 22: 8-9, 17-18, 19-20, 23-24, Philippians 2: 6-11, Luke 22: 14 – 23: 56
2009 was a challenging year for me, likely for many of you too. I was laid off from work in March, my Dad died in May and my sister-in-law was diagnosed with a cancerous brain tumor, only partially removed with surgery, and not responding to Chemo.
That’s a lot in just one year. And it does not even consider the disastrous economy and other personal difficulties that we often all encounter in any one year. How do we manage things like this? How do we manage the stress, feelings of hopelessness or fear?
How must Jesus have felt already knowing the horrific fate that awaited him? Even as he took his place at the last supper table with his apostles, he simply said, “I have eagerly desired to eat this Passover with you before I suffer….” This beautiful man came to earth ultimately to suffer and die for our sins, yet he was always filled with grace, kindness and forgiveness.
How frightened and hopeless Jesus must have felt knowing not just the time and hour of his death, but exactly how painfully he would die, yet he continued to live with resolve, patience and generosity……not an easy thing to do.
Yet Jesus tells us that He is always with us, which means that whether we turn to him or not, He will never forsake us, He will always be there, to listen, to help. He waits for us at His table every day, to share his “body and blood”; He meets us daily in the people and events of our lives – always loving us, always nurturing us.
This life is not easy, nor did anyone promise it would be. We need each other, we need Jesus. When I remember that, remember to turn to Jesus daily, even if only for a brief prayer on some days, I know He will be there.
Maybe this Palm Sunday, as Jesus was welcomed into Jerusalem, we can welcome him into our hearts forever with the knowledge that He will always be there – no matter what.
Bonnie Falcone, formerly in banking and health care, retired in 2009, parishioner for 15+ years, blessed with good friends and family in my life (and 1 dog and 1 cat!).
2009 was a challenging year for me, likely for many of you too. I was laid off from work in March, my Dad died in May and my sister-in-law was diagnosed with a cancerous brain tumor, only partially removed with surgery, and not responding to Chemo.
That’s a lot in just one year. And it does not even consider the disastrous economy and other personal difficulties that we often all encounter in any one year. How do we manage things like this? How do we manage the stress, feelings of hopelessness or fear?
How must Jesus have felt already knowing the horrific fate that awaited him? Even as he took his place at the last supper table with his apostles, he simply said, “I have eagerly desired to eat this Passover with you before I suffer….” This beautiful man came to earth ultimately to suffer and die for our sins, yet he was always filled with grace, kindness and forgiveness.
How frightened and hopeless Jesus must have felt knowing not just the time and hour of his death, but exactly how painfully he would die, yet he continued to live with resolve, patience and generosity……not an easy thing to do.
Yet Jesus tells us that He is always with us, which means that whether we turn to him or not, He will never forsake us, He will always be there, to listen, to help. He waits for us at His table every day, to share his “body and blood”; He meets us daily in the people and events of our lives – always loving us, always nurturing us.
This life is not easy, nor did anyone promise it would be. We need each other, we need Jesus. When I remember that, remember to turn to Jesus daily, even if only for a brief prayer on some days, I know He will be there.
Maybe this Palm Sunday, as Jesus was welcomed into Jerusalem, we can welcome him into our hearts forever with the knowledge that He will always be there – no matter what.
Bonnie Falcone, formerly in banking and health care, retired in 2009, parishioner for 15+ years, blessed with good friends and family in my life (and 1 dog and 1 cat!).
Saturday, March 27, 2010
March 27th, Saturday, Fifth Week of Lent
Ezekiel 37: 21-28, Jeremiah 31: 10, 11-12abcd, 13, John 11: 45-56
These three readings are perfect for me as I write my reflection in December 2009. I am going through a time of confusion and fear of the unknown especially with health concerns and financial concerns. I feel like a lamb who has strayed from the flock and is lost. In my heart I know the Shepherd is nearby protecting me, yet in my head I am frightened for drifting away and now struggle with how to reconnect with God in prayer and meditation.
My heart was praying: “I am desperate Lord and seek your wisdom and guidance. Please open my eyes and ears to see you and hear your voice. I am sorry for withdrawing and hiding from you.” And then I read today’s scripture readings. In them God assured me that God would gather together the scattered parts of my self -- and that God’s protection would always be with me.
Like Lazarus bound in the tomb as dead, I continued to pray: “Please summon me O God, out from the darkness into the light. Enlighten me through your mercy and forgiveness, that I may once again serve you by seeing without fear the face of God in all the people in my life. May your Holy Spirit renew my strength and courage to trust in you Lord and believe more than ever that I am a Beloved Child of God who will never abandon me.
St. Augustine said: “Our hearts are restless until they rest in God.” I continue to pray that God will make my own restlessness a means of being closer to God. “Thank you Lord for shepherding me in your love and for restoring my faith in you as my Savior.”
Barbara Bychowski, wife with Howard 43 years, mother of 4 adult children, liturgical Eucharistic minister and care minister for homebound parishioners and hospital patients. Moved from Chicago with my parents in 1946 to Mt. Prospect. Met Howard in 1963 in Mt. Prospect. We married at St. Raymond's in 1966. Raised our family in Mt. P. and am at Home in St. Raymond's Faith Community where I feel loved and nurtured. I cherish these years and am grateful for kind support from the People of God within our St. Raymond Family. God bless us all with renewed Hope in our Risen Lord Jesus.
These three readings are perfect for me as I write my reflection in December 2009. I am going through a time of confusion and fear of the unknown especially with health concerns and financial concerns. I feel like a lamb who has strayed from the flock and is lost. In my heart I know the Shepherd is nearby protecting me, yet in my head I am frightened for drifting away and now struggle with how to reconnect with God in prayer and meditation.
My heart was praying: “I am desperate Lord and seek your wisdom and guidance. Please open my eyes and ears to see you and hear your voice. I am sorry for withdrawing and hiding from you.” And then I read today’s scripture readings. In them God assured me that God would gather together the scattered parts of my self -- and that God’s protection would always be with me.
Like Lazarus bound in the tomb as dead, I continued to pray: “Please summon me O God, out from the darkness into the light. Enlighten me through your mercy and forgiveness, that I may once again serve you by seeing without fear the face of God in all the people in my life. May your Holy Spirit renew my strength and courage to trust in you Lord and believe more than ever that I am a Beloved Child of God who will never abandon me.
St. Augustine said: “Our hearts are restless until they rest in God.” I continue to pray that God will make my own restlessness a means of being closer to God. “Thank you Lord for shepherding me in your love and for restoring my faith in you as my Savior.”
Barbara Bychowski, wife with Howard 43 years, mother of 4 adult children, liturgical Eucharistic minister and care minister for homebound parishioners and hospital patients. Moved from Chicago with my parents in 1946 to Mt. Prospect. Met Howard in 1963 in Mt. Prospect. We married at St. Raymond's in 1966. Raised our family in Mt. P. and am at Home in St. Raymond's Faith Community where I feel loved and nurtured. I cherish these years and am grateful for kind support from the People of God within our St. Raymond Family. God bless us all with renewed Hope in our Risen Lord Jesus.
Friday, March 26, 2010
March 26th, Friday, Fifth Week of Lent
Jeremiah 20: 10-13, Psalm 18: 2-3a, 3bc-4, 5-6, 7, John 10: 31-42
In today’s reading from Psalms we are reminded that God is our rock and fortress. There have been many times when I have turned to God, but the most moments followed the birth of our son.
Liam was born a healthy baby and after so many challenging years, we were blessed with a daughter and son. But when Liam was brought into my hospital room the next morning, he made a strange movement with his right arm. At the time I knew it was odd but couldn’t identify it. His pediatrician arrived a few hours later to examine him. These seizures, as it turned out, were manifestations of a gestational stroke. Liam was rushed to the NICU where he remained for two and a half weeks. Liam was heavily sedated, feeding only through a tube. I spent many hours praying to God for strength and wisdom.
I was stricken with grief and anxiety knowing I’d be leaving Liam behind upon my release. I wondered why, at our request, our parish priest in Glenview, hadn’t come to pray with us. After all, he knew us. As I waited for the wheelchair to escort me to the car, thick tears filled my eyes, when suddenly in walked one of God’s living rocks, Fr. Bob McGlaughlin. Fr. Mac had married us five years earlier at Holy Name Cathedral.
God is always our rock and fortress; always present in our most difficult times. But often, God will send a human agent to physically act as our rock and fortress when we are most in need. Liam was very weak when we finally brought him home, but we knew we could depend on God, and his human delegates to give Liam the perseverance and determination required to heal.
Are you ready, willing and able to be a human rock and fortress for another when your Heavenly Father makes a request of you?
Margaret Ariens Denten, mother of Molly and Liam.
In today’s reading from Psalms we are reminded that God is our rock and fortress. There have been many times when I have turned to God, but the most moments followed the birth of our son.
Liam was born a healthy baby and after so many challenging years, we were blessed with a daughter and son. But when Liam was brought into my hospital room the next morning, he made a strange movement with his right arm. At the time I knew it was odd but couldn’t identify it. His pediatrician arrived a few hours later to examine him. These seizures, as it turned out, were manifestations of a gestational stroke. Liam was rushed to the NICU where he remained for two and a half weeks. Liam was heavily sedated, feeding only through a tube. I spent many hours praying to God for strength and wisdom.
I was stricken with grief and anxiety knowing I’d be leaving Liam behind upon my release. I wondered why, at our request, our parish priest in Glenview, hadn’t come to pray with us. After all, he knew us. As I waited for the wheelchair to escort me to the car, thick tears filled my eyes, when suddenly in walked one of God’s living rocks, Fr. Bob McGlaughlin. Fr. Mac had married us five years earlier at Holy Name Cathedral.
God is always our rock and fortress; always present in our most difficult times. But often, God will send a human agent to physically act as our rock and fortress when we are most in need. Liam was very weak when we finally brought him home, but we knew we could depend on God, and his human delegates to give Liam the perseverance and determination required to heal.
Are you ready, willing and able to be a human rock and fortress for another when your Heavenly Father makes a request of you?
Margaret Ariens Denten, mother of Molly and Liam.
Thursday, March 25, 2010
March 25th, Thursday, Fifth Week of Lent
Isaish 7: 10-14; 8: 10, Psalm 40: 7-8a, 8b-9, 10, 11, Hebrews 10: 4-10, Luke 1: 26-38
I like Lent. For me, it is a time for reflection – a time to look more closely at God, life, and how I am fitting-in.
In today’s readings, we have Luke’s Annunciation narrative and a selection from Isaiah with reference to Immanuel – God with us. Christmas in Lent. It is fitting.
Thinking about Mary, it seems to me that Mary – after realizing what she was being called to do and after she recovered from the shock – took on the responsibility of nurturing and raising Jesus. No doubt, she was out of her mind with worry as she searched to find the “lost” Jesus in the temple. Surely she celebrated in Jesus’ sign at Cana and anguished at the foot of the cross. It occurs to me for the first time that Mary – having free will like the rest of us – had to make difficult choices. And she did. Mary did what love required.
Today’s reading from Hebrews spoke to me in a similar vain. For me, the elemental Jesus is found in his actions. By his actions He reflects the love of God and brings good news. Surely, He enjoyed his friends. He went out of his way to respect women and other marginalized of the day. He ate with tax collectors. He cured the sick. He broke the letter of the law when necessary. For Jesus, it was not about sacrifices and offerings. He did what love required - what God requires.
From today’s Psalm we read, “I delight to do your will, O my God.” Mary did. Jesus did.
I hope this Lent will help me do a better job.
John Monaco, husband of Carole, father, seeker.
I like Lent. For me, it is a time for reflection – a time to look more closely at God, life, and how I am fitting-in.
In today’s readings, we have Luke’s Annunciation narrative and a selection from Isaiah with reference to Immanuel – God with us. Christmas in Lent. It is fitting.
Thinking about Mary, it seems to me that Mary – after realizing what she was being called to do and after she recovered from the shock – took on the responsibility of nurturing and raising Jesus. No doubt, she was out of her mind with worry as she searched to find the “lost” Jesus in the temple. Surely she celebrated in Jesus’ sign at Cana and anguished at the foot of the cross. It occurs to me for the first time that Mary – having free will like the rest of us – had to make difficult choices. And she did. Mary did what love required.
Today’s reading from Hebrews spoke to me in a similar vain. For me, the elemental Jesus is found in his actions. By his actions He reflects the love of God and brings good news. Surely, He enjoyed his friends. He went out of his way to respect women and other marginalized of the day. He ate with tax collectors. He cured the sick. He broke the letter of the law when necessary. For Jesus, it was not about sacrifices and offerings. He did what love required - what God requires.
From today’s Psalm we read, “I delight to do your will, O my God.” Mary did. Jesus did.
I hope this Lent will help me do a better job.
John Monaco, husband of Carole, father, seeker.
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
March 24th, Wednesday, Fifth Week of Lent
Daniel 3: 14-20, 91-92, 95, Daniel 3: 52, 53, 54, 55, 56, John 8: 31-42
Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego are so strong in their faith and belief in their God that they allow themselves to be thrown into a fiery furnace without a fight rather than worship King Nebuchadnezzar’s god or idols. They walk out of the furnace unscathed. In addition, they are followed out by a fourth person that resembles the appearance of a messenger of God.
Idealistically, if put into that same situation, I would be allowed to be bound and thrown into that furnace and believe that Jesus would walk out beside me. Realistically, I am positive that there would be hesitation before that last step or a trip over my own two feet that would send me into the furnace. Plus, the concept that Jesus himself would be there to walk out with me is truly overwhelming.
We might not be faced with the proposition of worshiping other gods or idols. However, we can look at the decisions made on a daily basis and how we consciously or unconsciously use the confidence that we have in our faith in our actions and words:
• how we treat family, friends and strangers
• decisions made at work and treatment of co-workers
• guidance given to children
I hope that I have acted with the same level of confidence that Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego did in the past and that I will act with the confidence of my faith in the future.
Carrie Conlon, married to Dan.
Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego are so strong in their faith and belief in their God that they allow themselves to be thrown into a fiery furnace without a fight rather than worship King Nebuchadnezzar’s god or idols. They walk out of the furnace unscathed. In addition, they are followed out by a fourth person that resembles the appearance of a messenger of God.
Idealistically, if put into that same situation, I would be allowed to be bound and thrown into that furnace and believe that Jesus would walk out beside me. Realistically, I am positive that there would be hesitation before that last step or a trip over my own two feet that would send me into the furnace. Plus, the concept that Jesus himself would be there to walk out with me is truly overwhelming.
We might not be faced with the proposition of worshiping other gods or idols. However, we can look at the decisions made on a daily basis and how we consciously or unconsciously use the confidence that we have in our faith in our actions and words:
• how we treat family, friends and strangers
• decisions made at work and treatment of co-workers
• guidance given to children
I hope that I have acted with the same level of confidence that Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego did in the past and that I will act with the confidence of my faith in the future.
Carrie Conlon, married to Dan.
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
March 23rd, Tuesday, Fifth Week of Lent
Numbers 21: 4-9, Psalm 102: 2-3, 16-18, 19-21, John 8: 21-30
Today's readings are full of non-believers matched against poisonous serpents in the wilderness, affliction and suffering and a death foretold. It reads like the book jacket of the newest thriller. What will happen next? Who will survive? Who will save the day? I guess the comparison is inevitable for me. As a part-time book seller I've become accustomed to enticing even the most jaded, unmotivated customer with just enough of the passion and pathos lurking in the pages of “The Book” of the moment, so that they will walk out the door with it tucked under their arm, anticipating their next leisure moment.
I am probably that unmotivated customer when it comes time to reflect on the meaning of today's readings. The thrilling tale is there for me to read. Moses saved the day by praying to God for help on behalf of his faithless people. The Lord saved the afflicted and set free those who were doomed to die when they prayed for salvation. But how does this relate to my life story?
I have to uneasily admit that times have been tough, but not quite on the same scale. Our family has faced lack of employment over the past couple of years. Who or what will save us? It is always nice to dream of winning the big Lotto jackpot, but the reality is that I think that I must do all the saving on my own. Do I have enough faith to believe that God will save us in moments of need-big or little- if I pray for help?
A big part of Lent is prayer and reflection. Will I take time to read the story and understand the lesson of faith in God's help and recognize His help when it comes? Will I be a passive reader or an active participant in my faith story?
Sue Sullivan, married 25 years to Mike, mother of Sean, Glenna, Andrew & Connor.
Today's readings are full of non-believers matched against poisonous serpents in the wilderness, affliction and suffering and a death foretold. It reads like the book jacket of the newest thriller. What will happen next? Who will survive? Who will save the day? I guess the comparison is inevitable for me. As a part-time book seller I've become accustomed to enticing even the most jaded, unmotivated customer with just enough of the passion and pathos lurking in the pages of “The Book” of the moment, so that they will walk out the door with it tucked under their arm, anticipating their next leisure moment.
I am probably that unmotivated customer when it comes time to reflect on the meaning of today's readings. The thrilling tale is there for me to read. Moses saved the day by praying to God for help on behalf of his faithless people. The Lord saved the afflicted and set free those who were doomed to die when they prayed for salvation. But how does this relate to my life story?
I have to uneasily admit that times have been tough, but not quite on the same scale. Our family has faced lack of employment over the past couple of years. Who or what will save us? It is always nice to dream of winning the big Lotto jackpot, but the reality is that I think that I must do all the saving on my own. Do I have enough faith to believe that God will save us in moments of need-big or little- if I pray for help?
A big part of Lent is prayer and reflection. Will I take time to read the story and understand the lesson of faith in God's help and recognize His help when it comes? Will I be a passive reader or an active participant in my faith story?
Sue Sullivan, married 25 years to Mike, mother of Sean, Glenna, Andrew & Connor.
Monday, March 22, 2010
March 22nd, Monday, Fifth Week of Lent
Daniel 13: 1-9, 15-17, 19-30, 33-62, Psalm 23: 1-3a, 3b-4, 5, 6, John 8: 12-20
In today’s gospel, Jesus says “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life”. What darkness is keeping me from having the light of life? Where do I experience the light of God in this world?
Darkness comes and goes in my life. Actually, the degree of darkness and the extent of God’s light in my life changes all the time. Darkness takes on many forms in my life. Darkness happens when I excessively worry and stress out. This worry grows in intensity and I get lost. I grow anxious, confused and hopeless. It consumes me. It physically feels like darkness (the light is growing dim) is surrounding me.
Other times darkness comes when I’m excessively busy and lose myself in my work. It consumes me. My relationships suffer. The darkness grows as I let my schedule control me. I feel stretched, tired and lonely.
Ironically, darkness sometimes comes when I think I “have it all together”! It comes when I feel like I’m on top of the world and “I’m making things happen”. This high feeling consumes me. I feel superior, full of myself and in control.
Thank God (literally) these periods of darkness are followed by moments or periods of the light of God. The darkness eventually breaks and I begin to see the light of God again. This break often times is the response to a cry for God’s help for being hopeless, lonely, or when I can no longer control. The light grows when I turn my worries over to God for answers and don’t try to solve them on my own. The light grows when I make time for God through prayer and nurture the relationships in my life. The light of God continues to grow and burn when I let go, pray regularly and try to do God’s will to the best of my ability!
Sue Smedinghoff, small business consultant and corporate trainer, married, parishioner for 14 years .
In today’s gospel, Jesus says “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life”. What darkness is keeping me from having the light of life? Where do I experience the light of God in this world?
Darkness comes and goes in my life. Actually, the degree of darkness and the extent of God’s light in my life changes all the time. Darkness takes on many forms in my life. Darkness happens when I excessively worry and stress out. This worry grows in intensity and I get lost. I grow anxious, confused and hopeless. It consumes me. It physically feels like darkness (the light is growing dim) is surrounding me.
Other times darkness comes when I’m excessively busy and lose myself in my work. It consumes me. My relationships suffer. The darkness grows as I let my schedule control me. I feel stretched, tired and lonely.
Ironically, darkness sometimes comes when I think I “have it all together”! It comes when I feel like I’m on top of the world and “I’m making things happen”. This high feeling consumes me. I feel superior, full of myself and in control.
Thank God (literally) these periods of darkness are followed by moments or periods of the light of God. The darkness eventually breaks and I begin to see the light of God again. This break often times is the response to a cry for God’s help for being hopeless, lonely, or when I can no longer control. The light grows when I turn my worries over to God for answers and don’t try to solve them on my own. The light grows when I make time for God through prayer and nurture the relationships in my life. The light of God continues to grow and burn when I let go, pray regularly and try to do God’s will to the best of my ability!
Sue Smedinghoff, small business consultant and corporate trainer, married, parishioner for 14 years .
Sunday, March 21, 2010
March 21st, Sunday, Fifth Week of Lent
Ezekiel 37: 12-14, Psalm 130: 1-2, 3-4, 5-6, 7-8, Romans 8: 8-11, John 11: 1-45 Year A
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Isaiah 43:16-21, Psalm 126:1-2, 2-3, 4-5, 6, Philippians 3:8-14, John 8:1-11, Year C
Today’s readings bring out the message that God is shining bright with hope and love no matter how dark life seems. Jesus answered the call of Mary and Martha, despite the fear of the apostles and brought Lazarus back to life.
My siblings and I felt the fear and sadness and confusion like Martha and Mary almost four years ago when our mother passed away after a long illness. Our sagging spirits and dark hearts were brought back to life by the help of St. Raymond’s wonderful bereavement ministry. The healing process of putting together the scriptures and hymns for the Mass helped us to calm down and enabled us to get through the long week of saying goodbye to Mom. We could feel the hope and strength of God because of the kindness and caring of dear friends, family, and the community of St. Raymond’s. Like in today’s Psalm "out of the depths I cry to you O Lord", we hope and wait for God’s answer and so often we get a gentle touch from a loved one. We may also receive a smile from a stranger, or kind words in a letter, so it keeps us going even when times are dark.
I feel blessed that I’ve been guided by different men of the parish to get involved on my spiritual journey through men’s CHRP and now a men’s M.A.C. group and the closing of the chapel. I can hear how the Spirit is working in our lives through the sharing of our everyday stories and also in the silence of the chapel. My wife and I have lived a block away from St. Raymond’s for thirty two years and have taken many evening walks and stopped outside at the statue of Mary with the big lit up cross. We say prayers of thanks and ask intentions for many friends and family and sometimes "cry out" when things aren’t going so well. We walk away feeling that the spirit, hope, and love of God is there to guide us on our journey of life.
Art Briggs, married to Marian, father of two.
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Isaiah 43:16-21, Psalm 126:1-2, 2-3, 4-5, 6, Philippians 3:8-14, John 8:1-11, Year C
Today’s readings bring out the message that God is shining bright with hope and love no matter how dark life seems. Jesus answered the call of Mary and Martha, despite the fear of the apostles and brought Lazarus back to life.
My siblings and I felt the fear and sadness and confusion like Martha and Mary almost four years ago when our mother passed away after a long illness. Our sagging spirits and dark hearts were brought back to life by the help of St. Raymond’s wonderful bereavement ministry. The healing process of putting together the scriptures and hymns for the Mass helped us to calm down and enabled us to get through the long week of saying goodbye to Mom. We could feel the hope and strength of God because of the kindness and caring of dear friends, family, and the community of St. Raymond’s. Like in today’s Psalm "out of the depths I cry to you O Lord", we hope and wait for God’s answer and so often we get a gentle touch from a loved one. We may also receive a smile from a stranger, or kind words in a letter, so it keeps us going even when times are dark.
I feel blessed that I’ve been guided by different men of the parish to get involved on my spiritual journey through men’s CHRP and now a men’s M.A.C. group and the closing of the chapel. I can hear how the Spirit is working in our lives through the sharing of our everyday stories and also in the silence of the chapel. My wife and I have lived a block away from St. Raymond’s for thirty two years and have taken many evening walks and stopped outside at the statue of Mary with the big lit up cross. We say prayers of thanks and ask intentions for many friends and family and sometimes "cry out" when things aren’t going so well. We walk away feeling that the spirit, hope, and love of God is there to guide us on our journey of life.
Art Briggs, married to Marian, father of two.
Saturday, March 20, 2010
March 20th, Saturday, Fourth Week of Lent
Jeremiah 11: 18-20, Psalm 7: 2-3, 9bc-10, 11-12, John 7: 40-53
There’s my way, and then there is God’s way.
Today’s readings talk about taking refuge in God, asking God to rescue us and become a shield to save and protect us. I often ask for God’s help, but rarely allow Him to help me.
For years, I was building a career that I knew deep down wasn’t what I was meant to be doing. To outsiders, I appeared successful and happy, but inside, I felt something was missing. Each promotion brought more prestige, but also increased responsibilities, more stress and time away from my family. I felt exhausted and empty, and yet I didn’t really do anything about it. I needed God’s refuge. I prayed that God would help me find more purposeful, fulfilling work that could support, rather than compete with my family and faith. I explored a number of opportunities, but realized most of them were new versions of the career I already had. It wasn’t until an opportunity at a national charity presented itself that I realized God had answered my prayers in the form of a challenge. Accepting God’s help required me to sacrifice some of the things that constituted worldly success. Making the change certainly wasn’t easy, but for me it has created a sense of purpose and peace.
This experience proved to me that God is always there to provide refuge and safety in my life, but I have to choose it.
I still try to solve almost all of my problems on my own and have to remind myself that God not only protects me, but guides me…when I’m willing to let Him.
Matt Knott is married to Agnes and they have four children: Emma, Jack, Abby and Taylor. Matt works for Feeding America.
There’s my way, and then there is God’s way.
Today’s readings talk about taking refuge in God, asking God to rescue us and become a shield to save and protect us. I often ask for God’s help, but rarely allow Him to help me.
For years, I was building a career that I knew deep down wasn’t what I was meant to be doing. To outsiders, I appeared successful and happy, but inside, I felt something was missing. Each promotion brought more prestige, but also increased responsibilities, more stress and time away from my family. I felt exhausted and empty, and yet I didn’t really do anything about it. I needed God’s refuge. I prayed that God would help me find more purposeful, fulfilling work that could support, rather than compete with my family and faith. I explored a number of opportunities, but realized most of them were new versions of the career I already had. It wasn’t until an opportunity at a national charity presented itself that I realized God had answered my prayers in the form of a challenge. Accepting God’s help required me to sacrifice some of the things that constituted worldly success. Making the change certainly wasn’t easy, but for me it has created a sense of purpose and peace.
This experience proved to me that God is always there to provide refuge and safety in my life, but I have to choose it.
I still try to solve almost all of my problems on my own and have to remind myself that God not only protects me, but guides me…when I’m willing to let Him.
Matt Knott is married to Agnes and they have four children: Emma, Jack, Abby and Taylor. Matt works for Feeding America.
Friday, March 19, 2010
March 19th, Friday, Fourth Week of Lent
2 Samuel 7: 4-5a, 12-14a, 16, Psalm 89: 2-3, 4-5, 27 and 29, Romans 4: 13, 16-18, 22, Matthew 1: 16, 18-21, 24a
The connection between today’s readings was not immediately apparent to me, even after reading additional verses from each chapter. What theme emerges from what I found to be a contradictory and confusing mixture of scripture passages? Then I thought, “How many times have I offered a prayer and coupled it with a promise to God?” Today’s readings speak to the inverse proposition - God’s promise to us.
God promises us loyalty, protection and, through our children, immortality. “Your dynasty shall stand forever.” As a father of young adults, I witness their efforts to establish their own lives. I repeatedly catch myself and refrain from giving unsolicited advice or instruction on how to approach a given situation or challenge. But sometimes the mouth gets going before the brain closes the door. Today, I am reminded of God’s promise that he will protect our children, whom he has chosen. “I am with you always, until the end of the age.” We are challenged to put our trust in God, just as Joseph did when the angel appeared and announced his impending paternity.
All God requires in return for this promise is our faith. The readings stress it is not following the law that will make us righteous, but it is faith. Maybe the lesson of the day isn’t limited to reinforcing our faith in God. Perhaps, these readings are a reminder to have faith in our children, too.
Tim Murphy is married to Kathleen and is the father of four grown children. He has been a member of St. Raymond's for 28 years.
The connection between today’s readings was not immediately apparent to me, even after reading additional verses from each chapter. What theme emerges from what I found to be a contradictory and confusing mixture of scripture passages? Then I thought, “How many times have I offered a prayer and coupled it with a promise to God?” Today’s readings speak to the inverse proposition - God’s promise to us.
God promises us loyalty, protection and, through our children, immortality. “Your dynasty shall stand forever.” As a father of young adults, I witness their efforts to establish their own lives. I repeatedly catch myself and refrain from giving unsolicited advice or instruction on how to approach a given situation or challenge. But sometimes the mouth gets going before the brain closes the door. Today, I am reminded of God’s promise that he will protect our children, whom he has chosen. “I am with you always, until the end of the age.” We are challenged to put our trust in God, just as Joseph did when the angel appeared and announced his impending paternity.
All God requires in return for this promise is our faith. The readings stress it is not following the law that will make us righteous, but it is faith. Maybe the lesson of the day isn’t limited to reinforcing our faith in God. Perhaps, these readings are a reminder to have faith in our children, too.
Tim Murphy is married to Kathleen and is the father of four grown children. He has been a member of St. Raymond's for 28 years.
Thursday, March 18, 2010
March 18th, Thursday, Fourth Week of Lent
Exodus 32: 7-14, Psalm 106: 19-20, 21-22, 23, John 5: 31-47
This Gospel from John talks about being your own witness and having others be your witness. John is telling us that although John the Baptist and others spoke of Jesus the only witness or glory that was important to Jesus was the glory given to him by God the Father. As parents of young children we are hopeful that we have taught them well. We hope that through our example we do good works without any external validation and know we have shared what God has given us.
Through our daily example of how we lead our lives and also in our teachings, my wife and I try to teach our children to be open to God’s voice. Although we do not always hear or understand the wisdom in God’s voice, we should have faith in God and in his plan.
In the first reading from the Old Testament we hear of how God gave us rules through the hands of Moses. In the New Testament we learn to have faith in God and express his witness through our daily good works. In our family we have small children. We teach them to do good work and to be open to God’s word. We have moments of success where the children are able to think of others on a snowy day and help a neighbor clear a driveway. We have also seen the children think of others and contribute some of their monetary treasure during a Sunday collection. Hopefully these small moments can become habits that continue through their lives. These small moments give us hope.
We pray that we can be humble in the presence of these great gifts we have been given and pray that we can continue to do good work.
Lou Coco, husband of Julie, father of Teresa 6th grade, Rachel 3rd grade and Maria in Kindergarten. Parishioner for 10 years and director of the facilities department at West Suburban Medical Center.
This Gospel from John talks about being your own witness and having others be your witness. John is telling us that although John the Baptist and others spoke of Jesus the only witness or glory that was important to Jesus was the glory given to him by God the Father. As parents of young children we are hopeful that we have taught them well. We hope that through our example we do good works without any external validation and know we have shared what God has given us.
Through our daily example of how we lead our lives and also in our teachings, my wife and I try to teach our children to be open to God’s voice. Although we do not always hear or understand the wisdom in God’s voice, we should have faith in God and in his plan.
In the first reading from the Old Testament we hear of how God gave us rules through the hands of Moses. In the New Testament we learn to have faith in God and express his witness through our daily good works. In our family we have small children. We teach them to do good work and to be open to God’s word. We have moments of success where the children are able to think of others on a snowy day and help a neighbor clear a driveway. We have also seen the children think of others and contribute some of their monetary treasure during a Sunday collection. Hopefully these small moments can become habits that continue through their lives. These small moments give us hope.
We pray that we can be humble in the presence of these great gifts we have been given and pray that we can continue to do good work.
Lou Coco, husband of Julie, father of Teresa 6th grade, Rachel 3rd grade and Maria in Kindergarten. Parishioner for 10 years and director of the facilities department at West Suburban Medical Center.
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
March 17th, Wednesday, Fourth Week of Lent
Isaiah 49: 8-15, Psalm 145: 8-9, 13cd-14, 17-18, John 5: 17-30
After reading and reflecting on the readings for today, I find myself relating to some passages from each:
“Thus says the Lord in a time of favor I have answered you” and “Yet I will never forget you”, from Isaiah.
Psalm’s “The Lord is good to all and his compassion is over all that he has made.” and “The Lord upholds all who are falling and raises up all who are bowed down.”
John’s “Very truly, I tell you, the Son can do nothing on his own but only what he sees the Father doing” and “ I can do nothing on my own.”
In my life, some challenging events have occurred, like, loss of jobs, having surgeries, surviving cancer, supporting my wife with some of her surgeries/health issues but I have always felt the presence of the Holy Spirit during the most difficult times. I have prayed that all would work out, not only for me but also for my family. A lot of joy has come from some of the sorrow, like being able to spend virtually every day with my two grandchildren, since their birth.
I now realize that I don’t really have the control in my life that I once thought I had. I also accept the fact that the Lord will never forget me, not only when I am “bowed down” but also when I am the happiest. I will keep praying for all, trying to do the best I can for my family and my community; and to be open for whatever the Lord’s plan is for me.
Rick Pluth, married 43 years to Kathleen, father of three, grandfather of two.
After reading and reflecting on the readings for today, I find myself relating to some passages from each:
“Thus says the Lord in a time of favor I have answered you” and “Yet I will never forget you”, from Isaiah.
Psalm’s “The Lord is good to all and his compassion is over all that he has made.” and “The Lord upholds all who are falling and raises up all who are bowed down.”
John’s “Very truly, I tell you, the Son can do nothing on his own but only what he sees the Father doing” and “ I can do nothing on my own.”
In my life, some challenging events have occurred, like, loss of jobs, having surgeries, surviving cancer, supporting my wife with some of her surgeries/health issues but I have always felt the presence of the Holy Spirit during the most difficult times. I have prayed that all would work out, not only for me but also for my family. A lot of joy has come from some of the sorrow, like being able to spend virtually every day with my two grandchildren, since their birth.
I now realize that I don’t really have the control in my life that I once thought I had. I also accept the fact that the Lord will never forget me, not only when I am “bowed down” but also when I am the happiest. I will keep praying for all, trying to do the best I can for my family and my community; and to be open for whatever the Lord’s plan is for me.
Rick Pluth, married 43 years to Kathleen, father of three, grandfather of two.
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
March 16th, Tuesday, Fourth Week of Lent
Ezekiel 47: 1-9, 12, Psalm 46: 2-3, 5-6, 8-9, John 5: 1-16
Today’s readings feature many different images of water. In the first reading from Ezekiel, we hear about waters that bring life. The water flows from a river into the sea bringing fresh water so that life will be abundant. In the Psalm reading, there is a reference to waters that rage and foam causing even the mountains to “totter”. In the last reading, we hear about a man who had been ill for many years. He was waiting at a pool called Bethesda for someone to carry him to the healing waters.
In our lives too, we may have times when the waters seem to be raging both figuratively as well as literally. I can think of my own personal examples of raging waters in the form of flooded basements, overflowing showers; and, on the figurative side, raging waters of illness or job loss. It’s amazing though how my personal water experiences have also led to moments of greater perspective. Sometimes it’s good to be reminded that we’re NOT in control of our lives. And, sometimes when we are very focused on the raging waters of our lives, we’re missing the hand of God reaching out to say “Take up your mat and walk.”
Laurie Augustyn-Fier, HR professional, married 22 years to Mark, mother of three children ages 18, 16, and 11.
Today’s readings feature many different images of water. In the first reading from Ezekiel, we hear about waters that bring life. The water flows from a river into the sea bringing fresh water so that life will be abundant. In the Psalm reading, there is a reference to waters that rage and foam causing even the mountains to “totter”. In the last reading, we hear about a man who had been ill for many years. He was waiting at a pool called Bethesda for someone to carry him to the healing waters.
In our lives too, we may have times when the waters seem to be raging both figuratively as well as literally. I can think of my own personal examples of raging waters in the form of flooded basements, overflowing showers; and, on the figurative side, raging waters of illness or job loss. It’s amazing though how my personal water experiences have also led to moments of greater perspective. Sometimes it’s good to be reminded that we’re NOT in control of our lives. And, sometimes when we are very focused on the raging waters of our lives, we’re missing the hand of God reaching out to say “Take up your mat and walk.”
Laurie Augustyn-Fier, HR professional, married 22 years to Mark, mother of three children ages 18, 16, and 11.
Monday, March 15, 2010
March 15th, Monday, Fourth Week of Lent
Isaiah 65: 17-21, Psalm 30: 2 and 4, 5-6, 11-12a and 13b, John 4: 43-54
In today's readings we are instructed to have faith, hope and trust in what is to come. The Lord will deliver His people – do not be afraid. Jesus rewarded the Roman official for his trust with the cure of his son. We too must exercise faith and trust in the Lord and know that he loves us beyond our imagination. As Jesus took the journey to Galilee, we too engage in a journey of faith.
Nearly 13 years ago we were blessed to receive an active gift of faith by God. Previous to that time, while we were faithful Catholics, attending Sunday mass and following church rules, we often felt that we were just going through the motions and began to question the depth of our faith. It didn't feel as though we were moving forward. We trusted in God's plan and soon our journey led us to St. Raymond's parish. You could say that is when we started the conversion in our faith journey. It seemed the Holy Spirit was guiding us daily. We began to actively participate in ministries within the parish. We discovered the Eucharistic chapel and the Sacrament of Reconciliation became very important to us. Reading spiritual materials, listening to tapes and attending weekend retreats became very much a part of our lives. We also participated in two religious pilgrimages to Medjugorje in Bosnia. All the while the Holy Spirit was directing us to new experiences. Emotionally, we were rewarded by the “fire within”. As time went on the emotional high was less frequent but by then we had a strong commitment to our faith even though at times it seemed that God wasn't with us as frequently. Mark Link S.J. writes that “God lets a “dry period” set in to force our prayer roots to grow to the faith level rather than stay on the surface at the feeling level”. This seems to be what St. John of the Cross, St. Theresa of Avilla, Mother Teresa and many others experienced and wrote about when they did not seem to be in frequent contact with God.
We realize our faith is not a private blessing. Good deeds and loving actions reveal God's presence in all of us. We need to reach out to others through our words and actions. What matters is that we take steps of faith and watch our Lord work His wonders.
Ron and Bev Glovetski, retired, and parents of four children and grandparents of eleven.
In today's readings we are instructed to have faith, hope and trust in what is to come. The Lord will deliver His people – do not be afraid. Jesus rewarded the Roman official for his trust with the cure of his son. We too must exercise faith and trust in the Lord and know that he loves us beyond our imagination. As Jesus took the journey to Galilee, we too engage in a journey of faith.
Nearly 13 years ago we were blessed to receive an active gift of faith by God. Previous to that time, while we were faithful Catholics, attending Sunday mass and following church rules, we often felt that we were just going through the motions and began to question the depth of our faith. It didn't feel as though we were moving forward. We trusted in God's plan and soon our journey led us to St. Raymond's parish. You could say that is when we started the conversion in our faith journey. It seemed the Holy Spirit was guiding us daily. We began to actively participate in ministries within the parish. We discovered the Eucharistic chapel and the Sacrament of Reconciliation became very important to us. Reading spiritual materials, listening to tapes and attending weekend retreats became very much a part of our lives. We also participated in two religious pilgrimages to Medjugorje in Bosnia. All the while the Holy Spirit was directing us to new experiences. Emotionally, we were rewarded by the “fire within”. As time went on the emotional high was less frequent but by then we had a strong commitment to our faith even though at times it seemed that God wasn't with us as frequently. Mark Link S.J. writes that “God lets a “dry period” set in to force our prayer roots to grow to the faith level rather than stay on the surface at the feeling level”. This seems to be what St. John of the Cross, St. Theresa of Avilla, Mother Teresa and many others experienced and wrote about when they did not seem to be in frequent contact with God.
We realize our faith is not a private blessing. Good deeds and loving actions reveal God's presence in all of us. We need to reach out to others through our words and actions. What matters is that we take steps of faith and watch our Lord work His wonders.
Ron and Bev Glovetski, retired, and parents of four children and grandparents of eleven.
Sunday, March 14, 2010
March 14th, Sunday, Fourth Week of Lent
1 Samuel 16: 1b. 6-7. 10-13a, Psalm 23: 1-3a, 3b-4, 5, 6 (1), Ephesians 5: 8-14, John 9: 1-41
The line "He makes me lie down in green pastures;" has reminded me about a time quite a few years ago. It was a beautiful fall day and my family and I had decided to take advantage and go for a bike ride through Busse Woods. Although it can be a hectic ride with small children on their own bikes and adults careening along at top speed, the day itself proved to be restful and reflective in an odd sort of way. Much of the ride had been spent in the usual way, constantly looking forward and behind me to see if my girls were keeping up and keeping to their side of the sidewalk. I felt that the ride was not quite as relaxing as I pictured it was going to be. One girl was tired and wanting to know when we would be heading home and the other was the daredevil always wanting to go further and faster. I could feel my neck and back knotted up with the anxiety and stress of the day. It was about all I could take when the path took a turn through a lightly wooded area that I noticed peacefulness in the air. Suddenly I felt I was alone on the path and could hear nothing other than the breeze through the trees and feel the sun on my face. It was at that moment that I realized God was trying to tell me to slow down, take a breath and enjoy the day as it was with my family. This may have lasted only a quick moment, but the idea of enjoying all that God has given me has lasted much longer.
Lisa Pacini, wife, mother of Natalie, Marissa and Max, nurse.
The line "He makes me lie down in green pastures;" has reminded me about a time quite a few years ago. It was a beautiful fall day and my family and I had decided to take advantage and go for a bike ride through Busse Woods. Although it can be a hectic ride with small children on their own bikes and adults careening along at top speed, the day itself proved to be restful and reflective in an odd sort of way. Much of the ride had been spent in the usual way, constantly looking forward and behind me to see if my girls were keeping up and keeping to their side of the sidewalk. I felt that the ride was not quite as relaxing as I pictured it was going to be. One girl was tired and wanting to know when we would be heading home and the other was the daredevil always wanting to go further and faster. I could feel my neck and back knotted up with the anxiety and stress of the day. It was about all I could take when the path took a turn through a lightly wooded area that I noticed peacefulness in the air. Suddenly I felt I was alone on the path and could hear nothing other than the breeze through the trees and feel the sun on my face. It was at that moment that I realized God was trying to tell me to slow down, take a breath and enjoy the day as it was with my family. This may have lasted only a quick moment, but the idea of enjoying all that God has given me has lasted much longer.
Lisa Pacini, wife, mother of Natalie, Marissa and Max, nurse.
Saturday, March 13, 2010
March 13th, Saturday, Third Week of Lent
Hosea 6: 1-6, Psalm 51: 3-4, 18-19, 20-21ab, Luke 18: 9-14
The reading today from Hosea instructs us to return to the Lord, our focus during this Lenten season. Hosea gives us a reason to return, to be healed, to be revived and to live before Him. My daily life is lived in a secular world, even though I might be among people of Faith. Why do I feel like I must draw a line between those two worlds? My Faith is most alive to me when I’m at Mass, but I have to work at remembering to “press on to know the Lord” while living my daily life.
Part of my day is lived among my friends who give me opportunities to share my Faith and my family who give me reasons to be charitable and remind me to be humble, but most of my day is spent in a business world. There it is not “appropriate” to speak of prayer, God, or Faith. Am I a silent example of how a follower of the Lord should live? I try to be.
In Psalms today we are promised that we will delight in right sacrifices if we rebuild the walls of Jerusalem. My task is to rebuild the walls of Faith in my heart and mind, making my Faith strong enough to be present to me every day. But how can I do that? Maybe Luke gives me a hint today in the story of the Pharisee and the tax collector. I must be humble like the tax collector in the eye of the Lord, asking for His mercy and acknowledge that I need His help to find my way. God tells us He will be present to support us and that He will come to us like the spring rains that water the earth.
If I have Faith, I have God by my side.
Mary Kirby, Mother, Friend, Eucharistic Minister.
The reading today from Hosea instructs us to return to the Lord, our focus during this Lenten season. Hosea gives us a reason to return, to be healed, to be revived and to live before Him. My daily life is lived in a secular world, even though I might be among people of Faith. Why do I feel like I must draw a line between those two worlds? My Faith is most alive to me when I’m at Mass, but I have to work at remembering to “press on to know the Lord” while living my daily life.
Part of my day is lived among my friends who give me opportunities to share my Faith and my family who give me reasons to be charitable and remind me to be humble, but most of my day is spent in a business world. There it is not “appropriate” to speak of prayer, God, or Faith. Am I a silent example of how a follower of the Lord should live? I try to be.
In Psalms today we are promised that we will delight in right sacrifices if we rebuild the walls of Jerusalem. My task is to rebuild the walls of Faith in my heart and mind, making my Faith strong enough to be present to me every day. But how can I do that? Maybe Luke gives me a hint today in the story of the Pharisee and the tax collector. I must be humble like the tax collector in the eye of the Lord, asking for His mercy and acknowledge that I need His help to find my way. God tells us He will be present to support us and that He will come to us like the spring rains that water the earth.
If I have Faith, I have God by my side.
Mary Kirby, Mother, Friend, Eucharistic Minister.
Friday, March 12, 2010
March 12th, Friday, Third Week of Lent
Hosea 14: 2-10, Psalm 81: 6c-8a, 8bc-9, 10-11ab, 14 and 17, Mark 12: 28-34
Today’s reading reminds us to keep our priorities straight and remember that God must come before everything else in our hectic lives. If we take the time to remember God he will lead us in the right direction, and our daily burdens won’t seem so tiresome. The message reminds me of a time this year when God and a friend helped me cope with the stress of my first college finals.
It was Sunday morning. My first final was the next day, and I had decided to spend the whole day with my nose in my books. Trouble was I had no direction. I could not decide where to start and had little determination to continue for the whole day. Things changed when my friend Calvin surprised me by showing up at my door wearing a suit. He told me I should come to church with him. I explained how church could not help me succeed on my final the next day, but he told me to forget about studying for an hour and follow him. He led me to a glorious old cathedral on campus I had never been in before and showed me a ceremony more beautiful than any church service I had ever sat through. After mass, we filtered into a reception where I was introduced to a man who had graduated exactly 75 years before I will graduate. He had the same exact major as I did. He shared his stories of his time at school and I saw what I may become in 75 years. With his story in my head, I returned to my dorm room inspired and finished my work in a concise manner. I aced that final the next day. If I had not followed Calvin to church that day I would have been lost.
When has there been a time where putting God first has surprisingly helped you?
Joe Gambino
Today’s reading reminds us to keep our priorities straight and remember that God must come before everything else in our hectic lives. If we take the time to remember God he will lead us in the right direction, and our daily burdens won’t seem so tiresome. The message reminds me of a time this year when God and a friend helped me cope with the stress of my first college finals.
It was Sunday morning. My first final was the next day, and I had decided to spend the whole day with my nose in my books. Trouble was I had no direction. I could not decide where to start and had little determination to continue for the whole day. Things changed when my friend Calvin surprised me by showing up at my door wearing a suit. He told me I should come to church with him. I explained how church could not help me succeed on my final the next day, but he told me to forget about studying for an hour and follow him. He led me to a glorious old cathedral on campus I had never been in before and showed me a ceremony more beautiful than any church service I had ever sat through. After mass, we filtered into a reception where I was introduced to a man who had graduated exactly 75 years before I will graduate. He had the same exact major as I did. He shared his stories of his time at school and I saw what I may become in 75 years. With his story in my head, I returned to my dorm room inspired and finished my work in a concise manner. I aced that final the next day. If I had not followed Calvin to church that day I would have been lost.
When has there been a time where putting God first has surprisingly helped you?
Joe Gambino
Thursday, March 11, 2010
March 11th, Thursday, Third Week of Lent
Jeremiah 7: 23-28, Psalm 95: 1-2, 6-7, 8-9, Luke 11: 14-23
This past fall, I was horrified to hear that my Grandma Chrystal was in the hospital with a severe case of pneumonia. The sickness was causing her lungs to fill with water, and the doctors told my family the fluid would have to be drained otherwise she would literally drown. My family and I were distraught, and there were countless prayers that we said for her. Thankfully, the doctors were able to drain the water from her lungs. Soon after the procedure, my whole family drove over to the hospital to see Grandma, and she did not seem herself. She was in a daze lying in the hospital bed, and we all wondered if she would ever be her normal self again. We continued to pray for her and to visit daily, and slowly but surely her condition improved. Now she is back home and in even better shape than before.
My grandma’s sickness is like the demon in the bible passage. With God’s healing touch and the love and support of her family, my grandma escaped the cold hands of death and was rid of her demon. Without the strength of her family, my grandmother would not have survived. In this way our family is like the kingdom of God; divided against one another we will all be “laid waste”, but if we have God and our family there to support us then we are stronger than ever.
Patrick Benson, graduated from St. Raymond School, oldest of five children, senior at Prospect High School.
This past fall, I was horrified to hear that my Grandma Chrystal was in the hospital with a severe case of pneumonia. The sickness was causing her lungs to fill with water, and the doctors told my family the fluid would have to be drained otherwise she would literally drown. My family and I were distraught, and there were countless prayers that we said for her. Thankfully, the doctors were able to drain the water from her lungs. Soon after the procedure, my whole family drove over to the hospital to see Grandma, and she did not seem herself. She was in a daze lying in the hospital bed, and we all wondered if she would ever be her normal self again. We continued to pray for her and to visit daily, and slowly but surely her condition improved. Now she is back home and in even better shape than before.
My grandma’s sickness is like the demon in the bible passage. With God’s healing touch and the love and support of her family, my grandma escaped the cold hands of death and was rid of her demon. Without the strength of her family, my grandmother would not have survived. In this way our family is like the kingdom of God; divided against one another we will all be “laid waste”, but if we have God and our family there to support us then we are stronger than ever.
Patrick Benson, graduated from St. Raymond School, oldest of five children, senior at Prospect High School.
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
March 10th, Wednesday, Third Week of Lent
Deuteronomy 4:1, 5-9, Psalm 147: 12-13, 15-16, 19-20, Matthew 5: 17-19
One day, many years ago, when I was just a boy, we found out that my dad’s Aunt Delia was coming to live with us. As kids we thought this would be great. We would be able to play cards and board games with her. We thought that she might even read to us. But when Aunt Delia arrived it was in what we would term today a hospice situation. In her nineties, and basically an invalid, Aunt Delia just had a few months to live and my parents were the only ones that offered to take her in. The burden of Aunt Delia’s care fell to my mom. My mom, who already had six children, accepted this overwhelming task.
When I listen to or read today’s Gospel passage, I often think of my mother. She not only taught us God’s laws but she lived them. It was through her example of love and compassion that I came to understand Jesus’ words, “I did not come to abolish the law, but to fulfill it.” In other words, Jesus came to show us how the law was to be lived. Jesus is the example for all to follow. We, in turn, are to be examples for others.
My mother was generous beyond words. She was generous with her time, her energy, and her tender loving care, not just to Aunt Delia, but to everyone she came in contact with. She was an example for her children of how to live. I only hope I will do as well.
John Semerau, retired, father and grandfather.
One day, many years ago, when I was just a boy, we found out that my dad’s Aunt Delia was coming to live with us. As kids we thought this would be great. We would be able to play cards and board games with her. We thought that she might even read to us. But when Aunt Delia arrived it was in what we would term today a hospice situation. In her nineties, and basically an invalid, Aunt Delia just had a few months to live and my parents were the only ones that offered to take her in. The burden of Aunt Delia’s care fell to my mom. My mom, who already had six children, accepted this overwhelming task.
When I listen to or read today’s Gospel passage, I often think of my mother. She not only taught us God’s laws but she lived them. It was through her example of love and compassion that I came to understand Jesus’ words, “I did not come to abolish the law, but to fulfill it.” In other words, Jesus came to show us how the law was to be lived. Jesus is the example for all to follow. We, in turn, are to be examples for others.
My mother was generous beyond words. She was generous with her time, her energy, and her tender loving care, not just to Aunt Delia, but to everyone she came in contact with. She was an example for her children of how to live. I only hope I will do as well.
John Semerau, retired, father and grandfather.
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
March 9th, Tuesday, Third Week of Lent
Daniel 3: 25, 34-43, Psalm 25: 4-5ab, 6 and 7bc, 8 and 9, Matthew 18: 21-35
Daniel 3 is about Azariah and his companions who stood up to King Nebuchadnezzar's demand that they worship his golden statue. They refuse and are thrown into a blazing furnace, but they remain unharmed because God has protected them from the flames.
Azariah stands up in the blazing furnace and begins to pray aloud to God telling Him that everything that God has done has been just and fair. This prayer is humble and sincere. It asks God not to take away the promises He made to Isaac and to have mercy on them for the sake of His love of Abraham. This deep and unquenchable faith is to be admired and we should all strive to emulate it.
My model of this way of life of prayer is my father who lived to be 93 years old, and every day for 60 of those 93 years he knelt down and prayed the rosary to praise God and to ask for His forgiveness. He reached out to help his six brothers and sisters. Not just with his prayers and personal sacrifices, but also with financial help, as well as, personally caring about their children. He never asked for repayment or even praise or recognition in return. Many years later, you could see their love for my father for what he had done for them and their mother.
He lived a life full of love for all of us, but especially for his grand children whom he deeply cherished. He loved children.
Bob Ryan - Sales manager, father of four.
Daniel 3 is about Azariah and his companions who stood up to King Nebuchadnezzar's demand that they worship his golden statue. They refuse and are thrown into a blazing furnace, but they remain unharmed because God has protected them from the flames.
Azariah stands up in the blazing furnace and begins to pray aloud to God telling Him that everything that God has done has been just and fair. This prayer is humble and sincere. It asks God not to take away the promises He made to Isaac and to have mercy on them for the sake of His love of Abraham. This deep and unquenchable faith is to be admired and we should all strive to emulate it.
My model of this way of life of prayer is my father who lived to be 93 years old, and every day for 60 of those 93 years he knelt down and prayed the rosary to praise God and to ask for His forgiveness. He reached out to help his six brothers and sisters. Not just with his prayers and personal sacrifices, but also with financial help, as well as, personally caring about their children. He never asked for repayment or even praise or recognition in return. Many years later, you could see their love for my father for what he had done for them and their mother.
He lived a life full of love for all of us, but especially for his grand children whom he deeply cherished. He loved children.
Bob Ryan - Sales manager, father of four.
Monday, March 8, 2010
March 8th, Monday, Third Week of Lent
2 Kings 5: 1-15b, Psalm 42: 2, 3; 43: 3, 4, Luke 4: 24-30
Faith is a tricky concept for many of us. When faced with a difficult or anxious situation, faith often becomes a hope or possibly an expectation of a specific outcome. We expect that outcome of our faith to be dressed a particular way, however I don’t think that is what faith is really about.
For many of us, our concept of faith grows as we have more life experiences and as our understanding of the world grows. Many of us start in a place of faith, with the expectation a specific outcome. What I’ve learned about faith is that it is not expectation, but a fact. Faith is 1) believing that the Lord has a message intended for us and that 2) we trust him and ourselves enough to believe that we will know when He is revealing Himself. The hard part is being patient long enough to notice how this message is revealed. We cannot expect Faith to wear certain clothes. We can only ask for the wisdom to become aware and understand when the Lord is presenting Himself. Psalm 43: 3, 4 states: “Send your light and fidelity, that they may be my guide”. To me, this means ‘enlighten me Lord so that I can experience your message’.
What motivates us to have faith? I believe If we’ve been fortunate enough to experience enough God-beauty in our lives, we long for more of those experiences. Psalm 42: 3 states, “My being thirsts for God, the living God. When can I go and see the face of God?”
I’ve learned we can go and see His face any time. We need to trust that God will give us what we need to know we’ve encountered Him.
Jeanne Rooney is a mother of three. She and her husband Tony have been parishioners of St. Raymond Parish for 13 years.
Faith is a tricky concept for many of us. When faced with a difficult or anxious situation, faith often becomes a hope or possibly an expectation of a specific outcome. We expect that outcome of our faith to be dressed a particular way, however I don’t think that is what faith is really about.
For many of us, our concept of faith grows as we have more life experiences and as our understanding of the world grows. Many of us start in a place of faith, with the expectation a specific outcome. What I’ve learned about faith is that it is not expectation, but a fact. Faith is 1) believing that the Lord has a message intended for us and that 2) we trust him and ourselves enough to believe that we will know when He is revealing Himself. The hard part is being patient long enough to notice how this message is revealed. We cannot expect Faith to wear certain clothes. We can only ask for the wisdom to become aware and understand when the Lord is presenting Himself. Psalm 43: 3, 4 states: “Send your light and fidelity, that they may be my guide”. To me, this means ‘enlighten me Lord so that I can experience your message’.
What motivates us to have faith? I believe If we’ve been fortunate enough to experience enough God-beauty in our lives, we long for more of those experiences. Psalm 42: 3 states, “My being thirsts for God, the living God. When can I go and see the face of God?”
I’ve learned we can go and see His face any time. We need to trust that God will give us what we need to know we’ve encountered Him.
Jeanne Rooney is a mother of three. She and her husband Tony have been parishioners of St. Raymond Parish for 13 years.
Sunday, March 7, 2010
March 7th, Sunday, Third Week of Lent
Exodus 17: 3-7, Psalm 95: 1-2, 6-7, 8-9, Romans 5: 1-2. 5-8, John 4: 5-42
The House of Massah & Meribah
You know how people have quaint sayings carved on to placards hung on their front doors? I’ve often admired them and thinking what a nice touch that is, adding to the charm and “street appeal” of houses. Instead of “Home Sweet Home” or “The Family that Plays Together Stays Together”, however, I sometimes feel “The House of Massah and Meribah” would more accurately describe ours. Bickering, endless blaming about whose ‘fault’ something is, demands for immediate results, unkind jabs at the expense of a sibling all abound, nothing at all “Sweet’ about it.
Yes, it’s easy to liken my children’s attitudes and behavior to the Israelites. I am certain Moses was frustrated and bewildered by the dessert folk. Like Moses, I am aggrieved at the ingratitude of my family, responding in exasperation; “I did not make you do that. I only thought my suggestion was a good idea and one we’d all be appreciative of in the long run.” Truthfully, though, I feel as if I play all the roles. I am too often the ingrate, wallowing in self pity about demands on my time. And sometimes I am the rigid God of the Old Testament, unforgiving for forty years, feeling justified in withholding the patience, understanding and tenderness of a parent.
So the lesson for me of this passage from Exodus and Psalm 95 is a message to have a little more faith, question less, worry less about what “I” and “they” haven’t done or don’t have. A message to focus more on the wonder of family and the community of St. Raymond, belonging to each other and for each other. Recognizing that the gifts we have are indeed numerous, most notably, the loving gift God extends to us in His Son, Jesus. Rather than hard-heartedness and negativity, I will try to see Massah & Meribah as evidence that with hopeful hearts and open minds, we can live the grace-filled life God intends for us.
Mary Anne Benden, attorney, married to Tim Bopp, mother of three.
The House of Massah & Meribah
You know how people have quaint sayings carved on to placards hung on their front doors? I’ve often admired them and thinking what a nice touch that is, adding to the charm and “street appeal” of houses. Instead of “Home Sweet Home” or “The Family that Plays Together Stays Together”, however, I sometimes feel “The House of Massah and Meribah” would more accurately describe ours. Bickering, endless blaming about whose ‘fault’ something is, demands for immediate results, unkind jabs at the expense of a sibling all abound, nothing at all “Sweet’ about it.
Yes, it’s easy to liken my children’s attitudes and behavior to the Israelites. I am certain Moses was frustrated and bewildered by the dessert folk. Like Moses, I am aggrieved at the ingratitude of my family, responding in exasperation; “I did not make you do that. I only thought my suggestion was a good idea and one we’d all be appreciative of in the long run.” Truthfully, though, I feel as if I play all the roles. I am too often the ingrate, wallowing in self pity about demands on my time. And sometimes I am the rigid God of the Old Testament, unforgiving for forty years, feeling justified in withholding the patience, understanding and tenderness of a parent.
So the lesson for me of this passage from Exodus and Psalm 95 is a message to have a little more faith, question less, worry less about what “I” and “they” haven’t done or don’t have. A message to focus more on the wonder of family and the community of St. Raymond, belonging to each other and for each other. Recognizing that the gifts we have are indeed numerous, most notably, the loving gift God extends to us in His Son, Jesus. Rather than hard-heartedness and negativity, I will try to see Massah & Meribah as evidence that with hopeful hearts and open minds, we can live the grace-filled life God intends for us.
Mary Anne Benden, attorney, married to Tim Bopp, mother of three.
Saturday, March 6, 2010
March 6th, Saturday, Second Week of Lent
Micah 7: 14-15, 18-20, Psalm 103: 1-2, 3-4, 9-10, 11-12, Luke 15: 1-3, 11-32
As I read the scriptures in the book of Luke I reflected on a human father’s love and ability to forgive his child. I wondered what my reaction would have been if this was my child. Do the boundaries of my love reach further than any wrong my child is capable of? So far, thankfully, they have. In some cases however, it takes a day or two for the actual forgiveness to take place. Knowing that the story of the Prodigal Son is a reference to God as the “Father” and all of God’s children as the prodigal son, gives us, the reader, a glimpse of how perfect God’s love is.
The scripture readings in Micah and the Book of Psalms talk not in parables but directly of God’s love and forgiveness. “He does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth so great is his love…”
This is the God I have always known in my heart. No sin by any of his children can fall outside the boundaries of his love. Even though some may say this gives us a free ticket to sin to any extent, and in the end be forgiven, we need to keep in mind that when we are closest to complete peace and happiness, we find ourselves in the center of how God truly wants us to live our lives. However, it is comforting to know that when we do fail and fall away, we are and always will be, welcome home.
Ken Dix, married to Katie, father of 4 girls.
As I read the scriptures in the book of Luke I reflected on a human father’s love and ability to forgive his child. I wondered what my reaction would have been if this was my child. Do the boundaries of my love reach further than any wrong my child is capable of? So far, thankfully, they have. In some cases however, it takes a day or two for the actual forgiveness to take place. Knowing that the story of the Prodigal Son is a reference to God as the “Father” and all of God’s children as the prodigal son, gives us, the reader, a glimpse of how perfect God’s love is.
The scripture readings in Micah and the Book of Psalms talk not in parables but directly of God’s love and forgiveness. “He does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth so great is his love…”
This is the God I have always known in my heart. No sin by any of his children can fall outside the boundaries of his love. Even though some may say this gives us a free ticket to sin to any extent, and in the end be forgiven, we need to keep in mind that when we are closest to complete peace and happiness, we find ourselves in the center of how God truly wants us to live our lives. However, it is comforting to know that when we do fail and fall away, we are and always will be, welcome home.
Ken Dix, married to Katie, father of 4 girls.
Friday, March 5, 2010
March 5th, Friday, Second Week of Lent
Genesis 37: 3-4, 12-13a, 17b-28a, Psalm 105: 16-17, 18-19, 20-21, Matthew 21: 33-43, 45-46
Genesis 37 -- Here comes the man of dreams; let us kill him.
Matthew 21:33-43, 45-46 -- Here is the heir; let us kill him.
Today’s scripture passages speak of violence and vile acts – Envy, resentment, rejection, slavery, beatings, and murder – all directed at the most innocent and pure of heart.
Who can hear the words of the Joseph story in Genesis without immediately thinking of the popular musical, Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat. The story floods us with imagery - the youngest son being the most beloved of his father; the dream interpreter; the beautiful multi-colored coat the symbol of the father’s love enwrapping the innocence within; the brothers plotting to murder their brother; the brothers throwing Joseph into a cistern and then sitting down to a meal as if nothing happened; the sale of Joseph into slavery for twenty pieces of silver.
Then in the gospel we hear the story of the vineyard owner sending his beloved son to his tenants to recover what is owed to him. The tenants kill the son, foolishly thinking they will acquire the son’s inheritance.
Joseph the dreamer is an oddball. He’s different. He’s able to correctly interpret dreams. His purity of heart allows him to see through the clutter to a deeper and clearer understanding of that which confounds others. In the gospel the vineyard owner’s son goes off to do his father’s bidding, probably thinking, as did his father, that the tenants would respect him for his position, even while knowing that the tenants beat and murdered the prior two emissaries from his father. How naïve! How pure of heart these two sons must be! What a couple of oddballs!
Who are the dreamers in our lives? Who are the oddballs? Who are the ones who are out of synch with our vision of the world? Who do we call naïve? Who are all these odd people in our lives to whom all will be given at the end?
Hank Matecki, married to Mary Jane, father of two grown children & parish business manager.
Genesis 37 -- Here comes the man of dreams; let us kill him.
Matthew 21:33-43, 45-46 -- Here is the heir; let us kill him.
Today’s scripture passages speak of violence and vile acts – Envy, resentment, rejection, slavery, beatings, and murder – all directed at the most innocent and pure of heart.
Who can hear the words of the Joseph story in Genesis without immediately thinking of the popular musical, Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat. The story floods us with imagery - the youngest son being the most beloved of his father; the dream interpreter; the beautiful multi-colored coat the symbol of the father’s love enwrapping the innocence within; the brothers plotting to murder their brother; the brothers throwing Joseph into a cistern and then sitting down to a meal as if nothing happened; the sale of Joseph into slavery for twenty pieces of silver.
Then in the gospel we hear the story of the vineyard owner sending his beloved son to his tenants to recover what is owed to him. The tenants kill the son, foolishly thinking they will acquire the son’s inheritance.
Joseph the dreamer is an oddball. He’s different. He’s able to correctly interpret dreams. His purity of heart allows him to see through the clutter to a deeper and clearer understanding of that which confounds others. In the gospel the vineyard owner’s son goes off to do his father’s bidding, probably thinking, as did his father, that the tenants would respect him for his position, even while knowing that the tenants beat and murdered the prior two emissaries from his father. How naïve! How pure of heart these two sons must be! What a couple of oddballs!
Who are the dreamers in our lives? Who are the oddballs? Who are the ones who are out of synch with our vision of the world? Who do we call naïve? Who are all these odd people in our lives to whom all will be given at the end?
Hank Matecki, married to Mary Jane, father of two grown children & parish business manager.
Thursday, March 4, 2010
March 4th, Thursday, Second Week of Lent
Jeremiah 17: 5-10, Psalm 1: 1-2, 3, 4 and 6, Luke 16: 19-31
The theme of today’s readings is living a righteous life: one guided by “the law of the Lord,” trusting in God’s care and treating others with justice and kindness.
The Gospel reading is the parable of the rich man and Lazarus. The details in the story are minimal. We can infer that during his lifetime the rich man did nothing to relieve the suffering of Lazarus. However, the story tells us nothing about the interaction between the two men. Did the rich man even notice Lazarus crouched in the gutter as he emerged from his compound? Or did the rich man verbally abuse Lazarus exhorting him to move away from his property?
We do not have to look far to identify the people in our community who fulfill the role of the unwanted and scorned. The problem is to “see” their need and identify a course of action.
Today’s reading brought to mind the experience of a friend who was nominated for a Teacher of the Year award. She was certainly a worthy candidate for such an honor. She did many things above and beyond her responsibilities as an educator, starting after-school clubs for at-risk students and working extensively with their parents to improve support for education at home. To move forward in the award process my friend had to complete a rather lengthy application. In preparation, she researched the previous year’s winner on the foundation’s website. That teacher had organized community groups to start a homeless shelter for families. My friend was filled with self-doubt: were her efforts on behalf of students significant? Would the review panel find her work worthy of recognition? In the end, my friend was paralyzed by her self-examination and never completed the application.
My reflection on today’s gospel raised questions which I still need to answer:
• Do I recognize those who are suffering in my community or have I become “blind” to the needs of those around me?
• What action should I take to relieve the physical or emotional suffering of others?
• Sometimes I feel paralyzed. There are so many needs. How do I balance the demands of daily life with the gospel call to help others?
• Are my efforts “worthy” to be deemed as living a righteous life?
Lore Levene, Educator, married to Dave, mother of two and grandmother of two.
The theme of today’s readings is living a righteous life: one guided by “the law of the Lord,” trusting in God’s care and treating others with justice and kindness.
The Gospel reading is the parable of the rich man and Lazarus. The details in the story are minimal. We can infer that during his lifetime the rich man did nothing to relieve the suffering of Lazarus. However, the story tells us nothing about the interaction between the two men. Did the rich man even notice Lazarus crouched in the gutter as he emerged from his compound? Or did the rich man verbally abuse Lazarus exhorting him to move away from his property?
We do not have to look far to identify the people in our community who fulfill the role of the unwanted and scorned. The problem is to “see” their need and identify a course of action.
Today’s reading brought to mind the experience of a friend who was nominated for a Teacher of the Year award. She was certainly a worthy candidate for such an honor. She did many things above and beyond her responsibilities as an educator, starting after-school clubs for at-risk students and working extensively with their parents to improve support for education at home. To move forward in the award process my friend had to complete a rather lengthy application. In preparation, she researched the previous year’s winner on the foundation’s website. That teacher had organized community groups to start a homeless shelter for families. My friend was filled with self-doubt: were her efforts on behalf of students significant? Would the review panel find her work worthy of recognition? In the end, my friend was paralyzed by her self-examination and never completed the application.
My reflection on today’s gospel raised questions which I still need to answer:
• Do I recognize those who are suffering in my community or have I become “blind” to the needs of those around me?
• What action should I take to relieve the physical or emotional suffering of others?
• Sometimes I feel paralyzed. There are so many needs. How do I balance the demands of daily life with the gospel call to help others?
• Are my efforts “worthy” to be deemed as living a righteous life?
Lore Levene, Educator, married to Dave, mother of two and grandmother of two.
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
March 3rd, Wednesday, Second Week of Lent
Jeremiah 18: 18-20, Psalm 31: 5-6, 14, 15-16, Matthew 20: 17-28
To trust and believe in a loving and generous God is the core message of Psalm 31. Just as Jesus had confidence in his Heavenly Father on the Cross, we too are asked to believe and trust in the unconditional love of God. God sent Jesus out of love so that we learned how to live. We strive to do this every day of the year. This journey is not easy but we persevere.
The Son of Man has come, not to be served by others but to serve! (Matthew 20:28) We are instructed in this week’s Gospel from Matthew that Jesus came to show us “how” to live our lives in service to others. The real path to holiness is not about position or power but it is in the simple acts of kindness and generosity where we are the “face of Jesus Christ” to all our brothers and sisters. When we extend a gesture of thoughtfulness or reach out to someone in need, we are indeed following the example and advice of Jesus and aspiring to true “greatness”. Greatness may be defined as a clarion call to “wholeness” of mind, body, and spirit. We are asked to challenge ourselves to greater acceptance of diversity and acknowledge the times when we gossip or “judge” others. As Jesus chided the disciples to set aside their pride and personal agendas in order to serve the needs of others, we too are asked to reach out in generosity and love to all those we meet.
Lord, teach me your way of looking at people, the way you glanced at Peter after his denial, the way you touched the hearts of your disciples. I would like to meet you as you really are, since you change those who really know you. Give me the grace to live my life, within and without, the way you lived your life.
Charlie Meyer, married 45 years to Pauline, father of Lucie (Kreidler), Henry and Tim, grandfather of Jessie, Becky, Jon and Cora.
To trust and believe in a loving and generous God is the core message of Psalm 31. Just as Jesus had confidence in his Heavenly Father on the Cross, we too are asked to believe and trust in the unconditional love of God. God sent Jesus out of love so that we learned how to live. We strive to do this every day of the year. This journey is not easy but we persevere.
The Son of Man has come, not to be served by others but to serve! (Matthew 20:28) We are instructed in this week’s Gospel from Matthew that Jesus came to show us “how” to live our lives in service to others. The real path to holiness is not about position or power but it is in the simple acts of kindness and generosity where we are the “face of Jesus Christ” to all our brothers and sisters. When we extend a gesture of thoughtfulness or reach out to someone in need, we are indeed following the example and advice of Jesus and aspiring to true “greatness”. Greatness may be defined as a clarion call to “wholeness” of mind, body, and spirit. We are asked to challenge ourselves to greater acceptance of diversity and acknowledge the times when we gossip or “judge” others. As Jesus chided the disciples to set aside their pride and personal agendas in order to serve the needs of others, we too are asked to reach out in generosity and love to all those we meet.
Lord, teach me your way of looking at people, the way you glanced at Peter after his denial, the way you touched the hearts of your disciples. I would like to meet you as you really are, since you change those who really know you. Give me the grace to live my life, within and without, the way you lived your life.
Charlie Meyer, married 45 years to Pauline, father of Lucie (Kreidler), Henry and Tim, grandfather of Jessie, Becky, Jon and Cora.
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
March 2nd, Tuesday, Second Week of Lent
Isaiah 1: 10, 16-20, Psalm 50: 8-9, 16bc-17, 21 and 23, Matthew 23: 1-12
This week’s readings are a good reminder that my faith should always lead the way. However, when life gets busy working full-time (which includes travel), taking care of a home, husband and an active two-year old, my faith is often pushed below the surface and briefly forgotten.
My job as a business consultant has me working with surgeons as well as executives from international corporations. Oftentimes, I find myself at a dinner listening to others discuss their (over)achievements and their new purchases, which sometimes include cars, vacation homes, and other extravagant toys. On occasion, I find myself feeling compelled to jump into the conversation to discuss my own achievements, degrees, and travel excursions just to impress, but always stop myself. I have to remind myself that there is no need to feel insecure or inadequate just because I don’t have the same level of worldly possessions.
Lent is the perfect time to remind myself of what is really important in life….my faith, family, husband and son.
As this week’s reading states, “Those who make themselves great will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be made great.”
Jill Maher, married 11 years to John Maher, mother of Ethan and lifelong parishioner of St. Raymond de Penafort Church .
This week’s readings are a good reminder that my faith should always lead the way. However, when life gets busy working full-time (which includes travel), taking care of a home, husband and an active two-year old, my faith is often pushed below the surface and briefly forgotten.
My job as a business consultant has me working with surgeons as well as executives from international corporations. Oftentimes, I find myself at a dinner listening to others discuss their (over)achievements and their new purchases, which sometimes include cars, vacation homes, and other extravagant toys. On occasion, I find myself feeling compelled to jump into the conversation to discuss my own achievements, degrees, and travel excursions just to impress, but always stop myself. I have to remind myself that there is no need to feel insecure or inadequate just because I don’t have the same level of worldly possessions.
Lent is the perfect time to remind myself of what is really important in life….my faith, family, husband and son.
As this week’s reading states, “Those who make themselves great will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be made great.”
Jill Maher, married 11 years to John Maher, mother of Ethan and lifelong parishioner of St. Raymond de Penafort Church .
Monday, March 1, 2010
March 1st, Monday, Second Week of Lent
Daniel 9: 4b-10, Psalm 79: 8, 9, 11 and 13, Luke 6: 36-38
Such a short Gospel; yet so jam packed with every day advice.
Have you ever attended a wake or talked with friends or family about a loved one, to hear comments such as “He never said a bad word about anyone”; or “No one ever had anything but good things to say about him”? My Uncle John McCormack was one of those special people-remembered with those very words, not only at his wake and funeral, but even today, at family functions and when talking with some of his co-workers. Most worthy of the title - “Everyone’s favorite Uncle”, he could entertain a bunch of young nieces and nephews just by making Jiffy Pop Popcorn, shaking his hips, and making funny faces as it popped; He was there to listen, gently giving advice as we got older; and the vision of him taking the arm of his 90+ year old aunt, escorting her in to a family party in grand fashion, all come to mind as I reflect on the phrases of today’s gospel - being merciful, not judging or condemning, and most of all walking through life, pouring out full measures of kindness.
May the dash “-“ between your birth year and the year you return to the Heavenly Father be filled with mercy, kind words, compassion and full measures of your many gifts and talents.
Debbie Lester, parishioner, and delighted to know so many wonderful people at St. Raymond’s.
Such a short Gospel; yet so jam packed with every day advice.
Have you ever attended a wake or talked with friends or family about a loved one, to hear comments such as “He never said a bad word about anyone”; or “No one ever had anything but good things to say about him”? My Uncle John McCormack was one of those special people-remembered with those very words, not only at his wake and funeral, but even today, at family functions and when talking with some of his co-workers. Most worthy of the title - “Everyone’s favorite Uncle”, he could entertain a bunch of young nieces and nephews just by making Jiffy Pop Popcorn, shaking his hips, and making funny faces as it popped; He was there to listen, gently giving advice as we got older; and the vision of him taking the arm of his 90+ year old aunt, escorting her in to a family party in grand fashion, all come to mind as I reflect on the phrases of today’s gospel - being merciful, not judging or condemning, and most of all walking through life, pouring out full measures of kindness.
May the dash “-“ between your birth year and the year you return to the Heavenly Father be filled with mercy, kind words, compassion and full measures of your many gifts and talents.
Debbie Lester, parishioner, and delighted to know so many wonderful people at St. Raymond’s.
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