2010 Lenten Booklet Contributors

Kathy Swedo, Larry Fujara, Fred Shafer, Elaina Grott, Jane Lambesis, Tom Moore, Bob Mathews, Ariel Arceo, Paula St. Louis, Lisa Honcharuk, Laura Carioti, Molly Sandberg, Debbie Lester, Jill Maher, Charlie Meyer, Lore Levene, Hank Matecki, Ken Dix, Mary Anne Benden, Jeanne Rooney, Bob Ryan, John Semerau, Patrick Benson, Joseph Gambino, Mary Kirby, Lisa Pacini, Ron & Bev Glovetski, Laurie Augustyn-Fier, Richard Pluth, Lou Coco, Tim Murphy, Matt Knott, Art Briggs, Sue Smedinghoff, Sue Sullivan, Carrie Conlon, John Monaco, Margaret Denten, Barbara Bychowski, Bonnie Falcone, Ginny Neugebauer, Chuck Hemler, Dorothy McGurn, B-L Pellicore, Jack Nuelle, Sandi Stoesser, Johnny Burnett

On behalf of the Lenten Team (Fr. Steve, Sr. Dee, Deacon John, Marty Mueller and myself) I want to take this opportunity to thank all the wonderful people who were willing to participate in this project. Your time, dedication and insights are truly inspirational. Special thanks to our booklet reviewer Sr. Dee and project coordinators Anne Granato and Roberta Nichols.

In the love of Christ,
Fr. Rodolfo G. Ramirez

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April 4th, Easter Sunday

Acts 10: 34a, 37-43, Psalm 118: 1-2, 16-17, 22-23, Colossians 3: 1-4, John 20: 1-9

In today's Gospel we don't encounter the risen Lord just yet. The tomb is empty, but Mary of Magdala, Peter and "the other disciple" go looking for him there. Later that same day, Mary will encounter the risen Lord, but Jesus tells her, "Stop holding on to me, for I have not yet ascended to the Father." In a sense, many of us still cling/hold on to the earthly Jesus, don't we? At this moment in the Gospel of John, a transformation is occurring, and our understanding is challenged whenever transformation and change occur. We tend to want to embrace old familiar ways, rather than accept new and different situations that for better or worse, are always going to come along in our lives.

I can certainly imagine how Fr. Steve Dombrowski and Fr. Bernie Pietrzak must have felt as they prepared to begin new lives in strange, new parishes, leaving behind the love of their established "church family." It is bittersweet, uncertain, and yet exciting!

For me, the empty tomb reminds me that we are now called to be the "earthly Jesus" to one another, and take him wherever we go on our journey. It was easy to believe in the "earthly Jesus", while he walked among us, but it challenges our faith, calls us to action, for us "to believe who have not seen" him. Jesus is Risen! Let him live in you!

How have you reacted when you've come to the "empty tomb" in your faith? Who will be Christ to others, if not you?

Johnny Burnett, believer, servant, musician.

April 3rd, Saturday, Easter Vigil

Isaiah 55: 1-11, Psalm 16: 5, 8-11, Romans 6: 3-11, Luke 24: 1-12

All of our readings today refer in some way to death, whether spiritual or physical, resurrection or rebirth, and an invitation to share an abundant and meaningful life through Christ Jesus. The Lenten season has extra special significance for me.

I was not born Catholic, nor was I raised in the Catholic faith. However, ten years ago I made the conscious decision to embark on the journey of a thousand miles by taking a single step. I became a candidate for RCIA, and expressed my desire to receive full fellowship and be accepted into the Catholic community. My decision was reached in part, due to the life and death of my father-in-law. We had a very close relationship, so we often had some very serious discussions. Many of those discussions involved my consideration of the Catholic faith. In his quiet, gentle manner, he told me that being Catholic is a way of life to be lived every day and not to be taken lightly. Little did anyone know that my father in law would be diagnosed with cancer in August and lose that battle in September of 1999.

During this time I asked him if he was afraid of death. His words were, “I have always known that there is a better place. So, no, I am not afraid. I believe.” He passed with the grace, dignity and faith that he lived his life. And so I knew that my decision to accept God’s invitation to allow my old self to die and become reborn in the newness of life was the right decision for me. I know that Hank watched as I was baptized. I know that he smiled as I received Holy Communion for the time. And because he loved me I heard him say, “This is my daughter in law, in whom I am well pleased.”

In whatever situation you may find yourself, Let go, and Let God. Rejoice! He is among the living, not the dead.

Sandi Stoesser, married to John for 21 years, mother, educator, singer.

April 2nd, Good Friday

Isaiah 52: 13 -- 53: 12, Psalm 31: 2, 6, 12-13, 15-16, 17, 25, Hebrews 4: 14-16; 5: 7-9, John 18: 1 -- 19: 42

I hesitated initially when I discovered I had the reflection for Good Friday. Was I really expected to write about the Night of the Lord’s Passion and Death? What insight could I possibly share about the most holy day in Christianity? So, I did nothing. The reflection gathered dust, and I put off thinking about it, until I realized something: we understand what Christ did for us on Calvary, but do we take the time to think of how He went about doing it? That “how” is on what I would like to focus.

The message of Good Friday to me is one of humility. Christ lowered Himself for us. He bled for us. And He asked for nothing in return. He did not make sure He would be glorified by His actions. The words of Isaiah speak that message best: “ Yet it was in our infirmities that he bore, our sufferings that he endured, while we thought of him as stricken, as one smitten by God and afflicted…. Though he was harshly treated, he submitted and opened not his mouth.” The crucifixion of Christ was not a vain action by any means. And as we realize that, we realize something about ourselves.

How often can we say that society does not play a major role in our decisions? I am swayed by the ideals of the majority more than I care to think. We look at Christ, the lowly Shepherd, the suffering servant, and we look at the face of utter humility. Can we honestly say we aim for that humility in our lives? Are we willing to change for it? Can we drown out the opinions of society and make our decisions based on the teachings and sacrifice of Christ? As we near the end of another Lenten season, we all, myself included, need to ask that of ourselves. We see Christ willingly and silently crushed by our sins, but will we change for it?

Jack Nuelle, junior at Saint Viator High School.

April 1st, Thursday of Holy Week

Exodus 12: 1-8, 11-14, Psalm 116: 12-13, 15-16bc, 17-18, 1 Corinthians 11: 23-26, John 13: 1-15

How many of us have ever been “imitated” by a child? We’ve all been there: that moment when a little girl squares herself, hands on hips, and exclaims to her younger brother: “Now, don’t forget to eat your vegetables, honey!” Or the little boy who stands side-by-side with his dad in front of the bathroom mirror, pretending to shave with a bladeless razor, using foaming bath soap for shaving cream.

At one time or another, we find ourselves teaching by example. The kids in our lives – our own children, nieces, nephews, friends, neighbors, students – look to us, as trusted adults, for guidance. I’ll never forget one night during a difficult time caring for my mom in her home. I’d asked my daughter, then a precocious three-year-old, to please bring grandma’s pills to her bedside. She took it upon herself to find a relish tray with separate sections, which provided the perfect vessel for the many required medications. After carefully dividing all pills out by color and size, she gingerly carried that all-important dish, normally reserved for pickles and olives, into her beloved grandma’s room, laying it with great care and compassion on the nightstand. It was the first time in weeks my mom laughed out loud. Still wiping the tears from her eyes she turned to me and chuckled, “I wonder where she learned how to take such good care of me!”

Teaching by example. It’s a responsibility we all have, and a lesson shared in two of my favorite scripture readings for today. In John 13, Jesus says to his disciples “I have given you a model to follow, so that as I have done for you, you should also do.” And in the first letter to the Corinthians, he tells them to “be imitators of me.”

Especially during this Lenten season, let us all reflect on just how powerful those words are. To follow Jesus’ example is a gift. And one that we can only hope will continue to be shared for generations to come.

B-L Pellicore, mother to Renée, healthcare communications manager.

March 31st, Wednesday of Holy Week

Isaiah 50: 4-9a, Psalm 69: 8-10, 21-22, 31 and 33-34, Matthew 26: 14-25

Tomorrow starts the Triduum! Thinking back on my grammar school days, Wednesday of Holy Week was a day of great expectation. It was the day my friends and I planned our participation in the three days to come. We planned to visit as many churches as we could on Holy Thursday. In those days we walked to each church so distance did limit us. Each church was more beautiful than the last. Good Friday was the reading of the Passion and veneration of the cross. Holy Saturday was rich in signs and symbols of the "passing over" of Jesus from darkness to new life. It was worth all the planning because it was indeed a spectacular time in our lives.

Today's readings from the Psalms speak of the people pouring out their woes, their suffering and pleas of "do not let me sink" (Psalm 69: 14), in the lament tradition, and yet they are unfailing in their trust knowing the Lord hears and never forsakes the needy. We all have suffering in our lives; how do we deal with it?

In Matthew's gospel we hear one of the best known gospel stories, the betrayal of Jesus. While at the table with his disciples, Jesus said that one of them would betray him. Judas replied, "Surely not I, Rabbi." and Jesus answered, "Yes, it is you." Judas had sold Jesus out for thirty pieces of silver. How many times have we played the Judas role in our lives? And reversing the scene, how many times have we been betrayed? Everyone knows how it feels.

Later Judas tried to give back the silver and undo his crime but sin cannot be undone or erased, it can only be forgiven. Forgiveness is not hard; we just have to ask for it! It is one of the greatest gifts our God has given us. Let us take time today to savor God's forgiving love in our own lives.

Dorothy McGurn, widow of Charlie, mother of seven, (one in heaven), grandmother of 11.

March 30th, Tuesday of Holy Week

Isaiah 49: 1-6, Psalm 71: 1-2, 3-4a, 5ab-6ab, 15 and 17, John 13: 21-33, 36-38

A quick glance at the calendar reminds us that we’re coming down the homestretch heading toward the events of Holy Thursday, Good Friday, and Easter. Today’s Gospel further sets the stage for what is about to occur.

But unlike a race, Easter will not be the finish; it will really be just the beginning. It will become the opportunity to gain the first real glimpse of just who this Jesus truly is and what his life has been about. We’ve heard his words and seen his signs done for others, but now we will come to see the unfolding of the Divine Plan.

Today’s first two readings emphasize that just as there was this Divine Plan for Salvation with Jesus at the center, the Lord God has created each of us with our own specific plan and purpose in mind. Our life’s task is to get in tune with that plan. Should we wander from that plan and purpose, the Lord God is there as the Psalm says to be our continuing protection and hope.

These readings remind us that Jesus knew the Plan and stuck with it. Can we continue to discover our individual plans and then live our lives following that guideline? That is our challenge not only for this Lent, but beyond.


Chuck Hemler - husband, father, grandfather, engineer.

March 29th, Monday of Holy Week

Isaiah 42: 1-7, Psalm 27: 1, 2, 3, 13-14, John 12: 1-11

Today’s reading from Isaiah, “Here is my servant, whom I uphold, my chosen, in whom my soul delights” reminds us that God loves us dearly and is pleased with us. God calls on us to be images of Himself in our world. We have a mission to make the presence of God known to others beginning with those closest and dearest to us.

I feel we teach by example. My parents had a strong, humble faith which was passed on to my sister and me by their example. What was most important was how we lived our lives. They struggled through hard times, but their faith grew stronger. I remember Sunday afternoons when they would both sit in the kitchen and listen to the Polish Father Justin Holy Hour on the radio, when mom made her Tuesday novena to St. Anthony, and when they would kneel at bedside for night prayers.

As parents, we make the image of God real for our children on a daily basis. Early on, our priority has been to provide our children the opportunity to receive a Catholic education, just as our parents did for us. Our children attended St. Raymond, Sacred Heart of Mary and St. Viator. Now their children have graduated from or are currently attending St. Raymond and Catholic schools in Florida. Our grandchildren continue to reinforce their faith by being an altar server through high school, attending Mass weekly, belonging to Branches, and experiencing the teen mission trips.

Through the years our family has established lasting religious traditions: our holy water font at the front door (a gift from our son and grandson’s pilgrimage to Lourdes), our own Holy Thursday Seder, blessing Easter food baskets, our family May crowning of Mary, and breaking oplatki at Christmas. These family traditions have become very important and meaningful to our family. As our family has grown, so has the mission, and the challenges continue in our changing world.

In Isaiah, God speaks to each of us: “I am the Lord, I have called you in righteousness, I have taken you by the hand and kept you.” God is leading and guiding us to fulfill His mission and through His grace, the power to make it happen.

Join me in reflecting on this thought during Holy Week: “Live in such a way that those who know you but don’t know God, will come to know God because they know you.”

Ginny Neugebauer, married 48 years to Dan, mother of seven, grandmother of twelve.

March 28th, Palm Sunday

Isaiah 50: 4-7, Psalm 22: 8-9, 17-18, 19-20, 23-24, Philippians 2: 6-11, Luke 22: 14 – 23: 56

2009 was a challenging year for me, likely for many of you too. I was laid off from work in March, my Dad died in May and my sister-in-law was diagnosed with a cancerous brain tumor, only partially removed with surgery, and not responding to Chemo.

That’s a lot in just one year. And it does not even consider the disastrous economy and other personal difficulties that we often all encounter in any one year. How do we manage things like this? How do we manage the stress, feelings of hopelessness or fear?

How must Jesus have felt already knowing the horrific fate that awaited him? Even as he took his place at the last supper table with his apostles, he simply said, “I have eagerly desired to eat this Passover with you before I suffer….” This beautiful man came to earth ultimately to suffer and die for our sins, yet he was always filled with grace, kindness and forgiveness.

How frightened and hopeless Jesus must have felt knowing not just the time and hour of his death, but exactly how painfully he would die, yet he continued to live with resolve, patience and generosity……not an easy thing to do.

Yet Jesus tells us that He is always with us, which means that whether we turn to him or not, He will never forsake us, He will always be there, to listen, to help. He waits for us at His table every day, to share his “body and blood”; He meets us daily in the people and events of our lives – always loving us, always nurturing us.

This life is not easy, nor did anyone promise it would be. We need each other, we need Jesus. When I remember that, remember to turn to Jesus daily, even if only for a brief prayer on some days, I know He will be there.

Maybe this Palm Sunday, as Jesus was welcomed into Jerusalem, we can welcome him into our hearts forever with the knowledge that He will always be there – no matter what.

Bonnie Falcone, formerly in banking and health care, retired in 2009, parishioner for 15+ years, blessed with good friends and family in my life (and 1 dog and 1 cat!).

March 27th, Saturday, Fifth Week of Lent

Ezekiel 37: 21-28, Jeremiah 31: 10, 11-12abcd, 13, John 11: 45-56

These three readings are perfect for me as I write my reflection in December 2009. I am going through a time of confusion and fear of the unknown especially with health concerns and financial concerns. I feel like a lamb who has strayed from the flock and is lost. In my heart I know the Shepherd is nearby protecting me, yet in my head I am frightened for drifting away and now struggle with how to reconnect with God in prayer and meditation.

My heart was praying: “I am desperate Lord and seek your wisdom and guidance. Please open my eyes and ears to see you and hear your voice. I am sorry for withdrawing and hiding from you.” And then I read today’s scripture readings. In them God assured me that God would gather together the scattered parts of my self -- and that God’s protection would always be with me.

Like Lazarus bound in the tomb as dead, I continued to pray: “Please summon me O God, out from the darkness into the light. Enlighten me through your mercy and forgiveness, that I may once again serve you by seeing without fear the face of God in all the people in my life. May your Holy Spirit renew my strength and courage to trust in you Lord and believe more than ever that I am a Beloved Child of God who will never abandon me.

St. Augustine said: “Our hearts are restless until they rest in God.” I continue to pray that God will make my own restlessness a means of being closer to God. “Thank you Lord for shepherding me in your love and for restoring my faith in you as my Savior.”

Barbara Bychowski, wife with Howard 43 years, mother of 4 adult children, liturgical Eucharistic minister and care minister for homebound parishioners and hospital patients. Moved from Chicago with my parents in 1946 to Mt. Prospect. Met Howard in 1963 in Mt. Prospect. We married at St. Raymond's in 1966. Raised our family in Mt. P. and am at Home in St. Raymond's Faith Community where I feel loved and nurtured. I cherish these years and am grateful for kind support from the People of God within our St. Raymond Family. God bless us all with renewed Hope in our Risen Lord Jesus.

March 26th, Friday, Fifth Week of Lent

Jeremiah 20: 10-13, Psalm 18: 2-3a, 3bc-4, 5-6, 7, John 10: 31-42

In today’s reading from Psalms we are reminded that God is our rock and fortress. There have been many times when I have turned to God, but the most moments followed the birth of our son.

Liam was born a healthy baby and after so many challenging years, we were blessed with a daughter and son. But when Liam was brought into my hospital room the next morning, he made a strange movement with his right arm. At the time I knew it was odd but couldn’t identify it. His pediatrician arrived a few hours later to examine him. These seizures, as it turned out, were manifestations of a gestational stroke. Liam was rushed to the NICU where he remained for two and a half weeks. Liam was heavily sedated, feeding only through a tube. I spent many hours praying to God for strength and wisdom.

I was stricken with grief and anxiety knowing I’d be leaving Liam behind upon my release. I wondered why, at our request, our parish priest in Glenview, hadn’t come to pray with us. After all, he knew us. As I waited for the wheelchair to escort me to the car, thick tears filled my eyes, when suddenly in walked one of God’s living rocks, Fr. Bob McGlaughlin. Fr. Mac had married us five years earlier at Holy Name Cathedral.

God is always our rock and fortress; always present in our most difficult times. But often, God will send a human agent to physically act as our rock and fortress when we are most in need. Liam was very weak when we finally brought him home, but we knew we could depend on God, and his human delegates to give Liam the perseverance and determination required to heal.

Are you ready, willing and able to be a human rock and fortress for another when your Heavenly Father makes a request of you?

Margaret Ariens Denten, mother of Molly and Liam.

March 25th, Thursday, Fifth Week of Lent

Isaish 7: 10-14; 8: 10, Psalm 40: 7-8a, 8b-9, 10, 11, Hebrews 10: 4-10, Luke 1: 26-38

I like Lent. For me, it is a time for reflection – a time to look more closely at God, life, and how I am fitting-in.

In today’s readings, we have Luke’s Annunciation narrative and a selection from Isaiah with reference to Immanuel – God with us. Christmas in Lent. It is fitting.

Thinking about Mary, it seems to me that Mary – after realizing what she was being called to do and after she recovered from the shock – took on the responsibility of nurturing and raising Jesus. No doubt, she was out of her mind with worry as she searched to find the “lost” Jesus in the temple. Surely she celebrated in Jesus’ sign at Cana and anguished at the foot of the cross. It occurs to me for the first time that Mary – having free will like the rest of us – had to make difficult choices. And she did. Mary did what love required.

Today’s reading from Hebrews spoke to me in a similar vain. For me, the elemental Jesus is found in his actions. By his actions He reflects the love of God and brings good news. Surely, He enjoyed his friends. He went out of his way to respect women and other marginalized of the day. He ate with tax collectors. He cured the sick. He broke the letter of the law when necessary. For Jesus, it was not about sacrifices and offerings. He did what love required - what God requires.

From today’s Psalm we read, “I delight to do your will, O my God.” Mary did. Jesus did.

I hope this Lent will help me do a better job.

John Monaco, husband of Carole, father, seeker.

March 24th, Wednesday, Fifth Week of Lent

Daniel 3: 14-20, 91-92, 95, Daniel 3: 52, 53, 54, 55, 56, John 8: 31-42

Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego are so strong in their faith and belief in their God that they allow themselves to be thrown into a fiery furnace without a fight rather than worship King Nebuchadnezzar’s god or idols. They walk out of the furnace unscathed. In addition, they are followed out by a fourth person that resembles the appearance of a messenger of God.

Idealistically, if put into that same situation, I would be allowed to be bound and thrown into that furnace and believe that Jesus would walk out beside me. Realistically, I am positive that there would be hesitation before that last step or a trip over my own two feet that would send me into the furnace. Plus, the concept that Jesus himself would be there to walk out with me is truly overwhelming.

We might not be faced with the proposition of worshiping other gods or idols. However, we can look at the decisions made on a daily basis and how we consciously or unconsciously use the confidence that we have in our faith in our actions and words:

• how we treat family, friends and strangers
• decisions made at work and treatment of co-workers
• guidance given to children

I hope that I have acted with the same level of confidence that Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego did in the past and that I will act with the confidence of my faith in the future.

Carrie Conlon, married to Dan.

March 23rd, Tuesday, Fifth Week of Lent

Numbers 21: 4-9, Psalm 102: 2-3, 16-18, 19-21, John 8: 21-30

Today's readings are full of non-believers matched against poisonous serpents in the wilderness, affliction and suffering and a death foretold. It reads like the book jacket of the newest thriller. What will happen next? Who will survive? Who will save the day? I guess the comparison is inevitable for me. As a part-time book seller I've become accustomed to enticing even the most jaded, unmotivated customer with just enough of the passion and pathos lurking in the pages of “The Book” of the moment, so that they will walk out the door with it tucked under their arm, anticipating their next leisure moment.

I am probably that unmotivated customer when it comes time to reflect on the meaning of today's readings. The thrilling tale is there for me to read. Moses saved the day by praying to God for help on behalf of his faithless people. The Lord saved the afflicted and set free those who were doomed to die when they prayed for salvation. But how does this relate to my life story?

I have to uneasily admit that times have been tough, but not quite on the same scale. Our family has faced lack of employment over the past couple of years. Who or what will save us? It is always nice to dream of winning the big Lotto jackpot, but the reality is that I think that I must do all the saving on my own. Do I have enough faith to believe that God will save us in moments of need-big or little- if I pray for help?

A big part of Lent is prayer and reflection. Will I take time to read the story and understand the lesson of faith in God's help and recognize His help when it comes? Will I be a passive reader or an active participant in my faith story?

Sue Sullivan, married 25 years to Mike, mother of Sean, Glenna, Andrew & Connor.

March 22nd, Monday, Fifth Week of Lent

Daniel 13: 1-9, 15-17, 19-30, 33-62, Psalm 23: 1-3a, 3b-4, 5, 6, John 8: 12-20

In today’s gospel, Jesus says “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life”. What darkness is keeping me from having the light of life? Where do I experience the light of God in this world?

Darkness comes and goes in my life. Actually, the degree of darkness and the extent of God’s light in my life changes all the time. Darkness takes on many forms in my life. Darkness happens when I excessively worry and stress out. This worry grows in intensity and I get lost. I grow anxious, confused and hopeless. It consumes me. It physically feels like darkness (the light is growing dim) is surrounding me.

Other times darkness comes when I’m excessively busy and lose myself in my work. It consumes me. My relationships suffer. The darkness grows as I let my schedule control me. I feel stretched, tired and lonely.

Ironically, darkness sometimes comes when I think I “have it all together”! It comes when I feel like I’m on top of the world and “I’m making things happen”. This high feeling consumes me. I feel superior, full of myself and in control.

Thank God (literally) these periods of darkness are followed by moments or periods of the light of God. The darkness eventually breaks and I begin to see the light of God again. This break often times is the response to a cry for God’s help for being hopeless, lonely, or when I can no longer control. The light grows when I turn my worries over to God for answers and don’t try to solve them on my own. The light grows when I make time for God through prayer and nurture the relationships in my life. The light of God continues to grow and burn when I let go, pray regularly and try to do God’s will to the best of my ability!

Sue Smedinghoff, small business consultant and corporate trainer, married, parishioner for 14 years .

March 21st, Sunday, Fifth Week of Lent

Ezekiel 37: 12-14, Psalm 130: 1-2, 3-4, 5-6, 7-8, Romans 8: 8-11, John 11: 1-45 Year A
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Isaiah 43:16-21, Psalm 126:1-2, 2-3, 4-5, 6, Philippians 3:8-14, John 8:1-11, Year C

Today’s readings bring out the message that God is shining bright with hope and love no matter how dark life seems. Jesus answered the call of Mary and Martha, despite the fear of the apostles and brought Lazarus back to life.

My siblings and I felt the fear and sadness and confusion like Martha and Mary almost four years ago when our mother passed away after a long illness. Our sagging spirits and dark hearts were brought back to life by the help of St. Raymond’s wonderful bereavement ministry. The healing process of putting together the scriptures and hymns for the Mass helped us to calm down and enabled us to get through the long week of saying goodbye to Mom. We could feel the hope and strength of God because of the kindness and caring of dear friends, family, and the community of St. Raymond’s. Like in today’s Psalm "out of the depths I cry to you O Lord", we hope and wait for God’s answer and so often we get a gentle touch from a loved one. We may also receive a smile from a stranger, or kind words in a letter, so it keeps us going even when times are dark.

I feel blessed that I’ve been guided by different men of the parish to get involved on my spiritual journey through men’s CHRP and now a men’s M.A.C. group and the closing of the chapel. I can hear how the Spirit is working in our lives through the sharing of our everyday stories and also in the silence of the chapel. My wife and I have lived a block away from St. Raymond’s for thirty two years and have taken many evening walks and stopped outside at the statue of Mary with the big lit up cross. We say prayers of thanks and ask intentions for many friends and family and sometimes "cry out" when things aren’t going so well. We walk away feeling that the spirit, hope, and love of God is there to guide us on our journey of life.

Art Briggs, married to Marian, father of two.

March 20th, Saturday, Fourth Week of Lent

Jeremiah 11: 18-20, Psalm 7: 2-3, 9bc-10, 11-12, John 7: 40-53

There’s my way, and then there is God’s way.

Today’s readings talk about taking refuge in God, asking God to rescue us and become a shield to save and protect us. I often ask for God’s help, but rarely allow Him to help me.

For years, I was building a career that I knew deep down wasn’t what I was meant to be doing. To outsiders, I appeared successful and happy, but inside, I felt something was missing. Each promotion brought more prestige, but also increased responsibilities, more stress and time away from my family. I felt exhausted and empty, and yet I didn’t really do anything about it. I needed God’s refuge. I prayed that God would help me find more purposeful, fulfilling work that could support, rather than compete with my family and faith. I explored a number of opportunities, but realized most of them were new versions of the career I already had. It wasn’t until an opportunity at a national charity presented itself that I realized God had answered my prayers in the form of a challenge. Accepting God’s help required me to sacrifice some of the things that constituted worldly success. Making the change certainly wasn’t easy, but for me it has created a sense of purpose and peace.

This experience proved to me that God is always there to provide refuge and safety in my life, but I have to choose it.

I still try to solve almost all of my problems on my own and have to remind myself that God not only protects me, but guides me…when I’m willing to let Him.

Matt Knott is married to Agnes and they have four children: Emma, Jack, Abby and Taylor. Matt works for Feeding America.

March 19th, Friday, Fourth Week of Lent

2 Samuel 7: 4-5a, 12-14a, 16, Psalm 89: 2-3, 4-5, 27 and 29, Romans 4: 13, 16-18, 22, Matthew 1: 16, 18-21, 24a

The connection between today’s readings was not immediately apparent to me, even after reading additional verses from each chapter. What theme emerges from what I found to be a contradictory and confusing mixture of scripture passages? Then I thought, “How many times have I offered a prayer and coupled it with a promise to God?” Today’s readings speak to the inverse proposition - God’s promise to us.

God promises us loyalty, protection and, through our children, immortality. “Your dynasty shall stand forever.” As a father of young adults, I witness their efforts to establish their own lives. I repeatedly catch myself and refrain from giving unsolicited advice or instruction on how to approach a given situation or challenge. But sometimes the mouth gets going before the brain closes the door. Today, I am reminded of God’s promise that he will protect our children, whom he has chosen. “I am with you always, until the end of the age.” We are challenged to put our trust in God, just as Joseph did when the angel appeared and announced his impending paternity.

All God requires in return for this promise is our faith. The readings stress it is not following the law that will make us righteous, but it is faith. Maybe the lesson of the day isn’t limited to reinforcing our faith in God. Perhaps, these readings are a reminder to have faith in our children, too.

Tim Murphy is married to Kathleen and is the father of four grown children. He has been a member of St. Raymond's for 28 years.

March 18th, Thursday, Fourth Week of Lent

Exodus 32: 7-14, Psalm 106: 19-20, 21-22, 23, John 5: 31-47

This Gospel from John talks about being your own witness and having others be your witness. John is telling us that although John the Baptist and others spoke of Jesus the only witness or glory that was important to Jesus was the glory given to him by God the Father. As parents of young children we are hopeful that we have taught them well. We hope that through our example we do good works without any external validation and know we have shared what God has given us.

Through our daily example of how we lead our lives and also in our teachings, my wife and I try to teach our children to be open to God’s voice. Although we do not always hear or understand the wisdom in God’s voice, we should have faith in God and in his plan.

In the first reading from the Old Testament we hear of how God gave us rules through the hands of Moses. In the New Testament we learn to have faith in God and express his witness through our daily good works. In our family we have small children. We teach them to do good work and to be open to God’s word. We have moments of success where the children are able to think of others on a snowy day and help a neighbor clear a driveway. We have also seen the children think of others and contribute some of their monetary treasure during a Sunday collection. Hopefully these small moments can become habits that continue through their lives. These small moments give us hope.

We pray that we can be humble in the presence of these great gifts we have been given and pray that we can continue to do good work.

Lou Coco, husband of Julie, father of Teresa 6th grade, Rachel 3rd grade and Maria in Kindergarten. Parishioner for 10 years and director of the facilities department at West Suburban Medical Center.

March 17th, Wednesday, Fourth Week of Lent

Isaiah 49: 8-15, Psalm 145: 8-9, 13cd-14, 17-18, John 5: 17-30

After reading and reflecting on the readings for today, I find myself relating to some passages from each:

“Thus says the Lord in a time of favor I have answered you” and “Yet I will never forget you”, from Isaiah.

Psalm’s “The Lord is good to all and his compassion is over all that he has made.” and “The Lord upholds all who are falling and raises up all who are bowed down.”

John’s “Very truly, I tell you, the Son can do nothing on his own but only what he sees the Father doing” and “ I can do nothing on my own.”

In my life, some challenging events have occurred, like, loss of jobs, having surgeries, surviving cancer, supporting my wife with some of her surgeries/health issues but I have always felt the presence of the Holy Spirit during the most difficult times. I have prayed that all would work out, not only for me but also for my family. A lot of joy has come from some of the sorrow, like being able to spend virtually every day with my two grandchildren, since their birth.

I now realize that I don’t really have the control in my life that I once thought I had. I also accept the fact that the Lord will never forget me, not only when I am “bowed down” but also when I am the happiest. I will keep praying for all, trying to do the best I can for my family and my community; and to be open for whatever the Lord’s plan is for me.

Rick Pluth, married 43 years to Kathleen, father of three, grandfather of two.

March 16th, Tuesday, Fourth Week of Lent

Ezekiel 47: 1-9, 12, Psalm 46: 2-3, 5-6, 8-9, John 5: 1-16

Today’s readings feature many different images of water. In the first reading from Ezekiel, we hear about waters that bring life. The water flows from a river into the sea bringing fresh water so that life will be abundant. In the Psalm reading, there is a reference to waters that rage and foam causing even the mountains to “totter”. In the last reading, we hear about a man who had been ill for many years. He was waiting at a pool called Bethesda for someone to carry him to the healing waters.

In our lives too, we may have times when the waters seem to be raging both figuratively as well as literally. I can think of my own personal examples of raging waters in the form of flooded basements, overflowing showers; and, on the figurative side, raging waters of illness or job loss. It’s amazing though how my personal water experiences have also led to moments of greater perspective. Sometimes it’s good to be reminded that we’re NOT in control of our lives. And, sometimes when we are very focused on the raging waters of our lives, we’re missing the hand of God reaching out to say “Take up your mat and walk.”

Laurie Augustyn-Fier, HR professional, married 22 years to Mark, mother of three children ages 18, 16, and 11.

March 15th, Monday, Fourth Week of Lent

Isaiah 65: 17-21, Psalm 30: 2 and 4, 5-6, 11-12a and 13b, John 4: 43-54

In today's readings we are instructed to have faith, hope and trust in what is to come. The Lord will deliver His people – do not be afraid. Jesus rewarded the Roman official for his trust with the cure of his son. We too must exercise faith and trust in the Lord and know that he loves us beyond our imagination. As Jesus took the journey to Galilee, we too engage in a journey of faith.

Nearly 13 years ago we were blessed to receive an active gift of faith by God. Previous to that time, while we were faithful Catholics, attending Sunday mass and following church rules, we often felt that we were just going through the motions and began to question the depth of our faith. It didn't feel as though we were moving forward. We trusted in God's plan and soon our journey led us to St. Raymond's parish. You could say that is when we started the conversion in our faith journey. It seemed the Holy Spirit was guiding us daily. We began to actively participate in ministries within the parish. We discovered the Eucharistic chapel and the Sacrament of Reconciliation became very important to us. Reading spiritual materials, listening to tapes and attending weekend retreats became very much a part of our lives. We also participated in two religious pilgrimages to Medjugorje in Bosnia. All the while the Holy Spirit was directing us to new experiences. Emotionally, we were rewarded by the “fire within”. As time went on the emotional high was less frequent but by then we had a strong commitment to our faith even though at times it seemed that God wasn't with us as frequently. Mark Link S.J. writes that “God lets a “dry period” set in to force our prayer roots to grow to the faith level rather than stay on the surface at the feeling level”. This seems to be what St. John of the Cross, St. Theresa of Avilla, Mother Teresa and many others experienced and wrote about when they did not seem to be in frequent contact with God.

We realize our faith is not a private blessing. Good deeds and loving actions reveal God's presence in all of us. We need to reach out to others through our words and actions. What matters is that we take steps of faith and watch our Lord work His wonders.

Ron and Bev Glovetski, retired, and parents of four children and grandparents of eleven.

March 14th, Sunday, Fourth Week of Lent

1 Samuel 16: 1b. 6-7. 10-13a, Psalm 23: 1-3a, 3b-4, 5, 6 (1), Ephesians 5: 8-14, John 9: 1-41

The line "He makes me lie down in green pastures;" has reminded me about a time quite a few years ago. It was a beautiful fall day and my family and I had decided to take advantage and go for a bike ride through Busse Woods. Although it can be a hectic ride with small children on their own bikes and adults careening along at top speed, the day itself proved to be restful and reflective in an odd sort of way. Much of the ride had been spent in the usual way, constantly looking forward and behind me to see if my girls were keeping up and keeping to their side of the sidewalk. I felt that the ride was not quite as relaxing as I pictured it was going to be. One girl was tired and wanting to know when we would be heading home and the other was the daredevil always wanting to go further and faster. I could feel my neck and back knotted up with the anxiety and stress of the day. It was about all I could take when the path took a turn through a lightly wooded area that I noticed peacefulness in the air. Suddenly I felt I was alone on the path and could hear nothing other than the breeze through the trees and feel the sun on my face. It was at that moment that I realized God was trying to tell me to slow down, take a breath and enjoy the day as it was with my family. This may have lasted only a quick moment, but the idea of enjoying all that God has given me has lasted much longer.

Lisa Pacini, wife, mother of Natalie, Marissa and Max, nurse.

March 13th, Saturday, Third Week of Lent

Hosea 6: 1-6, Psalm 51: 3-4, 18-19, 20-21ab, Luke 18: 9-14

The reading today from Hosea instructs us to return to the Lord, our focus during this Lenten season. Hosea gives us a reason to return, to be healed, to be revived and to live before Him. My daily life is lived in a secular world, even though I might be among people of Faith. Why do I feel like I must draw a line between those two worlds? My Faith is most alive to me when I’m at Mass, but I have to work at remembering to “press on to know the Lord” while living my daily life.

Part of my day is lived among my friends who give me opportunities to share my Faith and my family who give me reasons to be charitable and remind me to be humble, but most of my day is spent in a business world. There it is not “appropriate” to speak of prayer, God, or Faith. Am I a silent example of how a follower of the Lord should live? I try to be.

In Psalms today we are promised that we will delight in right sacrifices if we rebuild the walls of Jerusalem. My task is to rebuild the walls of Faith in my heart and mind, making my Faith strong enough to be present to me every day. But how can I do that? Maybe Luke gives me a hint today in the story of the Pharisee and the tax collector. I must be humble like the tax collector in the eye of the Lord, asking for His mercy and acknowledge that I need His help to find my way. God tells us He will be present to support us and that He will come to us like the spring rains that water the earth.

If I have Faith, I have God by my side.

Mary Kirby, Mother, Friend, Eucharistic Minister.

March 12th, Friday, Third Week of Lent

Hosea 14: 2-10, Psalm 81: 6c-8a, 8bc-9, 10-11ab, 14 and 17, Mark 12: 28-34

Today’s reading reminds us to keep our priorities straight and remember that God must come before everything else in our hectic lives. If we take the time to remember God he will lead us in the right direction, and our daily burdens won’t seem so tiresome. The message reminds me of a time this year when God and a friend helped me cope with the stress of my first college finals.

It was Sunday morning. My first final was the next day, and I had decided to spend the whole day with my nose in my books. Trouble was I had no direction. I could not decide where to start and had little determination to continue for the whole day. Things changed when my friend Calvin surprised me by showing up at my door wearing a suit. He told me I should come to church with him. I explained how church could not help me succeed on my final the next day, but he told me to forget about studying for an hour and follow him. He led me to a glorious old cathedral on campus I had never been in before and showed me a ceremony more beautiful than any church service I had ever sat through. After mass, we filtered into a reception where I was introduced to a man who had graduated exactly 75 years before I will graduate. He had the same exact major as I did. He shared his stories of his time at school and I saw what I may become in 75 years. With his story in my head, I returned to my dorm room inspired and finished my work in a concise manner. I aced that final the next day. If I had not followed Calvin to church that day I would have been lost.

When has there been a time where putting God first has surprisingly helped you?

Joe Gambino

March 11th, Thursday, Third Week of Lent

Jeremiah 7: 23-28, Psalm 95: 1-2, 6-7, 8-9, Luke 11: 14-23

This past fall, I was horrified to hear that my Grandma Chrystal was in the hospital with a severe case of pneumonia. The sickness was causing her lungs to fill with water, and the doctors told my family the fluid would have to be drained otherwise she would literally drown. My family and I were distraught, and there were countless prayers that we said for her. Thankfully, the doctors were able to drain the water from her lungs. Soon after the procedure, my whole family drove over to the hospital to see Grandma, and she did not seem herself. She was in a daze lying in the hospital bed, and we all wondered if she would ever be her normal self again. We continued to pray for her and to visit daily, and slowly but surely her condition improved. Now she is back home and in even better shape than before.

My grandma’s sickness is like the demon in the bible passage. With God’s healing touch and the love and support of her family, my grandma escaped the cold hands of death and was rid of her demon. Without the strength of her family, my grandmother would not have survived. In this way our family is like the kingdom of God; divided against one another we will all be “laid waste”, but if we have God and our family there to support us then we are stronger than ever.

Patrick Benson, graduated from St. Raymond School, oldest of five children, senior at Prospect High School.

March 10th, Wednesday, Third Week of Lent

Deuteronomy 4:1, 5-9, Psalm 147: 12-13, 15-16, 19-20, Matthew 5: 17-19

One day, many years ago, when I was just a boy, we found out that my dad’s Aunt Delia was coming to live with us. As kids we thought this would be great. We would be able to play cards and board games with her. We thought that she might even read to us. But when Aunt Delia arrived it was in what we would term today a hospice situation. In her nineties, and basically an invalid, Aunt Delia just had a few months to live and my parents were the only ones that offered to take her in. The burden of Aunt Delia’s care fell to my mom. My mom, who already had six children, accepted this overwhelming task.

When I listen to or read today’s Gospel passage, I often think of my mother. She not only taught us God’s laws but she lived them. It was through her example of love and compassion that I came to understand Jesus’ words, “I did not come to abolish the law, but to fulfill it.” In other words, Jesus came to show us how the law was to be lived. Jesus is the example for all to follow. We, in turn, are to be examples for others.

My mother was generous beyond words. She was generous with her time, her energy, and her tender loving care, not just to Aunt Delia, but to everyone she came in contact with. She was an example for her children of how to live. I only hope I will do as well.

John Semerau, retired, father and grandfather.

March 9th, Tuesday, Third Week of Lent

Daniel 3: 25, 34-43, Psalm 25: 4-5ab, 6 and 7bc, 8 and 9, Matthew 18: 21-35

Daniel 3 is about Azariah and his companions who stood up to King Nebuchadnezzar's demand that they worship his golden statue. They refuse and are thrown into a blazing furnace, but they remain unharmed because God has protected them from the flames.

Azariah stands up in the blazing furnace and begins to pray aloud to God telling Him that everything that God has done has been just and fair. This prayer is humble and sincere. It asks God not to take away the promises He made to Isaac and to have mercy on them for the sake of His love of Abraham. This deep and unquenchable faith is to be admired and we should all strive to emulate it.

My model of this way of life of prayer is my father who lived to be 93 years old, and every day for 60 of those 93 years he knelt down and prayed the rosary to praise God and to ask for His forgiveness. He reached out to help his six brothers and sisters. Not just with his prayers and personal sacrifices, but also with financial help, as well as, personally caring about their children. He never asked for repayment or even praise or recognition in return. Many years later, you could see their love for my father for what he had done for them and their mother.

He lived a life full of love for all of us, but especially for his grand children whom he deeply cherished. He loved children.

Bob Ryan - Sales manager, father of four.

March 8th, Monday, Third Week of Lent

2 Kings 5: 1-15b, Psalm 42: 2, 3; 43: 3, 4, Luke 4: 24-30

Faith is a tricky concept for many of us. When faced with a difficult or anxious situation, faith often becomes a hope or possibly an expectation of a specific outcome. We expect that outcome of our faith to be dressed a particular way, however I don’t think that is what faith is really about.

For many of us, our concept of faith grows as we have more life experiences and as our understanding of the world grows. Many of us start in a place of faith, with the expectation a specific outcome. What I’ve learned about faith is that it is not expectation, but a fact. Faith is 1) believing that the Lord has a message intended for us and that 2) we trust him and ourselves enough to believe that we will know when He is revealing Himself. The hard part is being patient long enough to notice how this message is revealed. We cannot expect Faith to wear certain clothes. We can only ask for the wisdom to become aware and understand when the Lord is presenting Himself. Psalm 43: 3, 4 states: “Send your light and fidelity, that they may be my guide”. To me, this means ‘enlighten me Lord so that I can experience your message’.

What motivates us to have faith? I believe If we’ve been fortunate enough to experience enough God-beauty in our lives, we long for more of those experiences. Psalm 42: 3 states, “My being thirsts for God, the living God. When can I go and see the face of God?”

I’ve learned we can go and see His face any time. We need to trust that God will give us what we need to know we’ve encountered Him.

Jeanne Rooney is a mother of three. She and her husband Tony have been parishioners of St. Raymond Parish for 13 years.

March 7th, Sunday, Third Week of Lent

Exodus 17: 3-7, Psalm 95: 1-2, 6-7, 8-9, Romans 5: 1-2. 5-8, John 4: 5-42

The House of Massah & Meribah

You know how people have quaint sayings carved on to placards hung on their front doors? I’ve often admired them and thinking what a nice touch that is, adding to the charm and “street appeal” of houses. Instead of “Home Sweet Home” or “The Family that Plays Together Stays Together”, however, I sometimes feel “The House of Massah and Meribah” would more accurately describe ours. Bickering, endless blaming about whose ‘fault’ something is, demands for immediate results, unkind jabs at the expense of a sibling all abound, nothing at all “Sweet’ about it.

Yes, it’s easy to liken my children’s attitudes and behavior to the Israelites. I am certain Moses was frustrated and bewildered by the dessert folk. Like Moses, I am aggrieved at the ingratitude of my family, responding in exasperation; “I did not make you do that. I only thought my suggestion was a good idea and one we’d all be appreciative of in the long run.” Truthfully, though, I feel as if I play all the roles. I am too often the ingrate, wallowing in self pity about demands on my time. And sometimes I am the rigid God of the Old Testament, unforgiving for forty years, feeling justified in withholding the patience, understanding and tenderness of a parent.

So the lesson for me of this passage from Exodus and Psalm 95 is a message to have a little more faith, question less, worry less about what “I” and “they” haven’t done or don’t have. A message to focus more on the wonder of family and the community of St. Raymond, belonging to each other and for each other. Recognizing that the gifts we have are indeed numerous, most notably, the loving gift God extends to us in His Son, Jesus. Rather than hard-heartedness and negativity, I will try to see Massah & Meribah as evidence that with hopeful hearts and open minds, we can live the grace-filled life God intends for us.

Mary Anne Benden, attorney, married to Tim Bopp, mother of three.

March 6th, Saturday, Second Week of Lent

Micah 7: 14-15, 18-20, Psalm 103: 1-2, 3-4, 9-10, 11-12, Luke 15: 1-3, 11-32

As I read the scriptures in the book of Luke I reflected on a human father’s love and ability to forgive his child. I wondered what my reaction would have been if this was my child. Do the boundaries of my love reach further than any wrong my child is capable of? So far, thankfully, they have. In some cases however, it takes a day or two for the actual forgiveness to take place. Knowing that the story of the Prodigal Son is a reference to God as the “Father” and all of God’s children as the prodigal son, gives us, the reader, a glimpse of how perfect God’s love is.

The scripture readings in Micah and the Book of Psalms talk not in parables but directly of God’s love and forgiveness. “He does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth so great is his love…”

This is the God I have always known in my heart. No sin by any of his children can fall outside the boundaries of his love. Even though some may say this gives us a free ticket to sin to any extent, and in the end be forgiven, we need to keep in mind that when we are closest to complete peace and happiness, we find ourselves in the center of how God truly wants us to live our lives. However, it is comforting to know that when we do fail and fall away, we are and always will be, welcome home.

Ken Dix, married to Katie, father of 4 girls.

March 5th, Friday, Second Week of Lent

Genesis 37: 3-4, 12-13a, 17b-28a, Psalm 105: 16-17, 18-19, 20-21, Matthew 21: 33-43, 45-46

Genesis 37 -- Here comes the man of dreams; let us kill him.
Matthew 21:33-43, 45-46 -- Here is the heir; let us kill him.

Today’s scripture passages speak of violence and vile acts – Envy, resentment, rejection, slavery, beatings, and murder – all directed at the most innocent and pure of heart.

Who can hear the words of the Joseph story in Genesis without immediately thinking of the popular musical, Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat. The story floods us with imagery - the youngest son being the most beloved of his father; the dream interpreter; the beautiful multi-colored coat the symbol of the father’s love enwrapping the innocence within; the brothers plotting to murder their brother; the brothers throwing Joseph into a cistern and then sitting down to a meal as if nothing happened; the sale of Joseph into slavery for twenty pieces of silver.

Then in the gospel we hear the story of the vineyard owner sending his beloved son to his tenants to recover what is owed to him. The tenants kill the son, foolishly thinking they will acquire the son’s inheritance.

Joseph the dreamer is an oddball. He’s different. He’s able to correctly interpret dreams. His purity of heart allows him to see through the clutter to a deeper and clearer understanding of that which confounds others. In the gospel the vineyard owner’s son goes off to do his father’s bidding, probably thinking, as did his father, that the tenants would respect him for his position, even while knowing that the tenants beat and murdered the prior two emissaries from his father. How naïve! How pure of heart these two sons must be! What a couple of oddballs!

Who are the dreamers in our lives? Who are the oddballs? Who are the ones who are out of synch with our vision of the world? Who do we call naïve? Who are all these odd people in our lives to whom all will be given at the end?

Hank Matecki, married to Mary Jane, father of two grown children & parish business manager.

March 4th, Thursday, Second Week of Lent

Jeremiah 17: 5-10, Psalm 1: 1-2, 3, 4 and 6, Luke 16: 19-31

The theme of today’s readings is living a righteous life: one guided by “the law of the Lord,” trusting in God’s care and treating others with justice and kindness.

The Gospel reading is the parable of the rich man and Lazarus. The details in the story are minimal. We can infer that during his lifetime the rich man did nothing to relieve the suffering of Lazarus. However, the story tells us nothing about the interaction between the two men. Did the rich man even notice Lazarus crouched in the gutter as he emerged from his compound? Or did the rich man verbally abuse Lazarus exhorting him to move away from his property?

We do not have to look far to identify the people in our community who fulfill the role of the unwanted and scorned. The problem is to “see” their need and identify a course of action.

Today’s reading brought to mind the experience of a friend who was nominated for a Teacher of the Year award. She was certainly a worthy candidate for such an honor. She did many things above and beyond her responsibilities as an educator, starting after-school clubs for at-risk students and working extensively with their parents to improve support for education at home. To move forward in the award process my friend had to complete a rather lengthy application. In preparation, she researched the previous year’s winner on the foundation’s website. That teacher had organized community groups to start a homeless shelter for families. My friend was filled with self-doubt: were her efforts on behalf of students significant? Would the review panel find her work worthy of recognition? In the end, my friend was paralyzed by her self-examination and never completed the application.

My reflection on today’s gospel raised questions which I still need to answer:
• Do I recognize those who are suffering in my community or have I become “blind” to the needs of those around me?
• What action should I take to relieve the physical or emotional suffering of others?
• Sometimes I feel paralyzed. There are so many needs. How do I balance the demands of daily life with the gospel call to help others?
• Are my efforts “worthy” to be deemed as living a righteous life?

Lore Levene, Educator, married to Dave, mother of two and grandmother of two.

March 3rd, Wednesday, Second Week of Lent

Jeremiah 18: 18-20, Psalm 31: 5-6, 14, 15-16, Matthew 20: 17-28

To trust and believe in a loving and generous God is the core message of Psalm 31. Just as Jesus had confidence in his Heavenly Father on the Cross, we too are asked to believe and trust in the unconditional love of God. God sent Jesus out of love so that we learned how to live. We strive to do this every day of the year. This journey is not easy but we persevere.

The Son of Man has come, not to be served by others but to serve! (Matthew 20:28) We are instructed in this week’s Gospel from Matthew that Jesus came to show us “how” to live our lives in service to others. The real path to holiness is not about position or power but it is in the simple acts of kindness and generosity where we are the “face of Jesus Christ” to all our brothers and sisters. When we extend a gesture of thoughtfulness or reach out to someone in need, we are indeed following the example and advice of Jesus and aspiring to true “greatness”. Greatness may be defined as a clarion call to “wholeness” of mind, body, and spirit. We are asked to challenge ourselves to greater acceptance of diversity and acknowledge the times when we gossip or “judge” others. As Jesus chided the disciples to set aside their pride and personal agendas in order to serve the needs of others, we too are asked to reach out in generosity and love to all those we meet.

Lord, teach me your way of looking at people, the way you glanced at Peter after his denial, the way you touched the hearts of your disciples. I would like to meet you as you really are, since you change those who really know you. Give me the grace to live my life, within and without, the way you lived your life.

Charlie Meyer, married 45 years to Pauline, father of Lucie (Kreidler), Henry and Tim, grandfather of Jessie, Becky, Jon and Cora.

March 2nd, Tuesday, Second Week of Lent

Isaiah 1: 10, 16-20, Psalm 50: 8-9, 16bc-17, 21 and 23, Matthew 23: 1-12

This week’s readings are a good reminder that my faith should always lead the way. However, when life gets busy working full-time (which includes travel), taking care of a home, husband and an active two-year old, my faith is often pushed below the surface and briefly forgotten.

My job as a business consultant has me working with surgeons as well as executives from international corporations. Oftentimes, I find myself at a dinner listening to others discuss their (over)achievements and their new purchases, which sometimes include cars, vacation homes, and other extravagant toys. On occasion, I find myself feeling compelled to jump into the conversation to discuss my own achievements, degrees, and travel excursions just to impress, but always stop myself. I have to remind myself that there is no need to feel insecure or inadequate just because I don’t have the same level of worldly possessions.

Lent is the perfect time to remind myself of what is really important in life….my faith, family, husband and son.

As this week’s reading states, “Those who make themselves great will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be made great.”

Jill Maher, married 11 years to John Maher, mother of Ethan and lifelong parishioner of St. Raymond de Penafort Church .

March 1st, Monday, Second Week of Lent

Daniel 9: 4b-10, Psalm 79: 8, 9, 11 and 13, Luke 6: 36-38

Such a short Gospel; yet so jam packed with every day advice.

Have you ever attended a wake or talked with friends or family about a loved one, to hear comments such as “He never said a bad word about anyone”; or “No one ever had anything but good things to say about him”? My Uncle John McCormack was one of those special people-remembered with those very words, not only at his wake and funeral, but even today, at family functions and when talking with some of his co-workers. Most worthy of the title - “Everyone’s favorite Uncle”, he could entertain a bunch of young nieces and nephews just by making Jiffy Pop Popcorn, shaking his hips, and making funny faces as it popped; He was there to listen, gently giving advice as we got older; and the vision of him taking the arm of his 90+ year old aunt, escorting her in to a family party in grand fashion, all come to mind as I reflect on the phrases of today’s gospel - being merciful, not judging or condemning, and most of all walking through life, pouring out full measures of kindness.

May the dash “-“ between your birth year and the year you return to the Heavenly Father be filled with mercy, kind words, compassion and full measures of your many gifts and talents.

Debbie Lester, parishioner, and delighted to know so many wonderful people at St. Raymond’s.

February 28th, Sunday, Second Week of Lent

Genesis 15: 5-12, 17-18, Psalm 27: 1, 7-8, 8-9, 13-14, Philippians 3: 17 -- 4: 1, Luke 9: 28b-36

What cloud of darkness envelopes you? For me, darkness comes in different forms. Feeling overwhelmed by too many commitments and responsibilities, anxiety about the H1N1 virus, regret and remorse for yelling at my children, sadness and worry for friends and family going through hard times. Darkness can overtake me.

In today’s readings, there is great darkness for many. But thankfully and most encouragingly, it reaffirms that there is nothing to fear when we trust in the Lord. Abram does not know what the Lord has in store for him; he is enveloped by a deep, terrifying darkness. But who comes through and assures Abram? God. He promises Abram he will give him descendants and a land in which to live. And then Psalm 27 reminds me: “The Lord is my light and my salvation. Whom should I fear? The Lord is my life’s refuge; of whom should I be afraid?” Again, here is the Lord, reassuring me that his promise of light awaits me. And, here’s an important point for me, it’s not just off in the distance somewhere but right now. “I believe that I shall see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord with courage; be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.”

In the Gospel when John, James and Peter go with Jesus to the top of the mountain. Jesus is transfigured; “his face changed in appearance and his clothes became dazzling white.” The opportunity is pure, unrestrained, completely open, and truly limitless in its offering. And when Peter offers to build three tents, seemingly more concerned with earthly things, “a cloud came and cast a shadow over them, and they became frightened…” the light goes out. For me, my concern, worry and fear with earthly things seems to be my downfall. For when I let go of the worry, put my trust in the Lord, and seek His light, the darkness recedes.

The Lord has given me the light for my darkness. He offers me light each and every day. My challenge is to switch on the light more often. My challenge is to remember that the light is always at the ready, always at my fingertips, always in my heart.

Molly Sandberg, married to Warren, mother of Caroline and Meghan.

February 27th, Saturday, First Week of Lent

Deuteronomy 26: 16-19, Psalm 119: 1-2, 4-5, 7-8, Matthew 5: 43-48

Today’s first reading, from Deuteronomy, sounds harsh, as the Israelites are commanded to obey ordinances if they are to be God’s people. However, all relationships that work or are successful, come with some expectations from both parties. Friends expect other friends to treat them in a respectful manner. Spouses expect devotion from each other in good times and in bad. Co-workers expect others to bring in the bagels some of the time. It is in some of these relationships that another person brings out the best in us. I think our relationship with God is a similar two–way street. God loves us unconditionally. Knowing this encourages us to hold up our end of the bargain, by living in a Christian way.

Psalm 119 goes a little further into this topic. It’s like starting a new diet. You believe that just because you want to be on this diet and thus fit in those skinny jeans, that you’ll just do it. Surely it’s not that easy! Deep down I think we want to behave in God-like ways, but things like peer pressure, worldly goods, exceptional brownies, etc. complicate it quite a bit. The people who are strong enough to override those pressures are the ones who seem to be most content and happy. They have learned to “give it to God.“

Finally, the Gospel illustrates one of the most difficult ways to live by God’s commandments: Love thy neighbor. Right away I think of a few people whom I’d rather not spend any time with…. Sometimes it’s difficult to be as kind as we know we should. I can think of a time when I could have reached out to a person who looked like she didn’t know anyone else in the room, but then I didn’t. Or a time when I knew that my joke would be at someone else’s expense, but told it anyway. And then felt bad. Had I done what God wanted me to do, I probably would have felt better about it.

Having a relationship with God is challenging, but, for all the times I remember being strong enough to do His will and put forth the effort, it really did feel good.

Laura Carioti, married, mother of two, former south-sider.

February 26th, Friday, First Week of Lent

Ezekiel 18: 21-28, Psalm 130: 1-2, 3-4, 5-7a, 7bc-8, Matthew 5: 20-26

The common message that embraced me with all of the readings was “Let Go and Let God.” Let go of judgment, let go of grudges, let go of anger and let God in. Ironically, when I was called to do this, I was doing none of that.

It was a tough month for me, emotionally, spiritually, physically. I was overworked, overtired, overstressed and overcommitted. Work was challenging, and yet all around me friends and family were being let go, so I certainly couldn’t complain. I was busy at work, busy at home, busy with my volunteering efforts and not taking any time for myself or God for that matter. I was angry at everyone wondering why I seemed to have so many more burdens and why weren’t others stepping up to the plate.

Then I got the letter asking me to do this. At first I ignored it and placed it in my never ending cluttered “to do” pile. The letter was followed up with a phone call from a parish priest, on a day I had just come home from Mass and realized what was missing was my faith connection. It was an “aha” moment when I was told I was selected to do this and I felt a strong message from God to come closer to him. I hesitated to say “yes,” but my Catholic guilt got the best of me, and again, my inability to say “no” when I am overwhelmed.

Shortly afterwards, my readings came to me—one might say they were randomly selected, but the messages were shouting out to me from God—Relax, let go, come to me and let me help you. I realized I was angry for things I shouldn’t be and was judging others for not reacting or responding to life’s stressors or extending themselves the way I was. God was speaking to me directly through the scriptures that were sent to me and he drew me back to him and gave me permission to release myself in his loving care. I have always been one to look for the signs, and I am sure I have missed many of the subtle ones, but this one was a neon flashing sign—right into my path, guiding me in his ways.

Too often we hang on to grudges, stress and anger, to the detriment of ourselves and those around us. When we hold on to negativity, we are not open to the positives. When we Let Go and Let God, we are allowing God to guide us along his path. And that will make all the difference.

Lisa Honcharuk, married with two daughters.

February 25th, Thursday, First Week of Lent

Esther C: 12, 14-16, 23-25, Psalm 138: 1-2ab, 2cde-3, 7c-8, Matthew 7: 7-12

We got a call from the doctor’s office: Our pregnancy test was back.

“Congratulations!” the nurse said. She was elated. I was terrified.

When we started our family six years earlier, pregnancy seemed easy. After Ryan’s birth, we thought we’d get pregnant again right away and fill our three bedrooms with kids. Instead, years of pregnancy losses mounted. It became too much. We embraced adoption instead.

Then the financial realities hit: insurance covered fertility treatments, not adoption. We struggled to make a decision. I opened my Bible one night, searching for direction. It fell open to Matthew 7: “Ask and it will be given to you.” I was instantly frustrated. Hadn’t I been asking for the past six years? Then I paused. Had I? Had I asked with any trust in my heart? Was I truly ready to ask God to put me back on the roller coaster of emotion of pregnancy? Could I give my heart over to hope? We prayed and we listened. We decided to trust God. To ask.

Those early months of pregnancy were nerve-wracking. Repeatedly, I returned to Matthew 7: “If you … know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give good things to those who ask him.” Those words always brought peace to my spirit.

On May 2, 2007, Colleen was born. She was born of hope and promise; she is a constant reminder to us of God’s ever-faithful love. But our babies who didn’t make it also remind us of God’s ever-faithful love. “I praise your name for your fidelity and love,” the Psalmist says. “When I cried out, you answered; you strengthened my spirit.”

We can ask, and we can seek, and we can knock; sometimes we’ll get what we ask for and sometimes we won’t. But if we hope, if we trust even in the face of fear, we’ll be able to see the good that God does in our lives, even in those most difficult times. It’s so hard to let go of control; it’s something I still struggle with daily. But I know that in those moments when I can let go, I find God. And his gifts are always good.

Paula St. Louis, married to Tom Shute, mom to Ryan (10) and Colleen (2).

February 24th, Wednesday, First Week of Lent

Jonah 3: 1-10, Psalm 51: 3-4, 12-13, 18-19, Luke 11: 29-32

“A heart contrite and humbled, O God, you will not spurn.” Contrition and humility: These words seem so foreign in today’s society where moral relativism and self-promotion appear to be the norms. And yet, how much different are we from the people of Nineveh? How different are our societies? Is it too much to assume that they too got mired in the mundane details of everyday living; and like us, became so self-sufficient and indifferent to one another.

Despite all their shortcomings, it only took two events for the citizens of Nineveh to be saved: the message of Jonah and the contrition and humility of its citizens. May we be so lucky to be tasked with such easy requirements to achieve our salvation? As the gospel of Luke says “Just as Jonah became a sign to the Ninevites, so will the Son of Man be to this generation.”

How do we respond to Jesus’ message? Are we contrite and humble enough to accept His grace? Are we trusting enough to share our load with Him? Are we obedient enough to discern and follow His will? Not much is requested of us – only that we make space for Him to come into our lives.

Ariel Arceo, husband of Glenda and father of Andrew, pilgrim.

February 23rd, Tuesday, First Week of Lent

Isaiah 55: 10-11, Psalm 34: 4-5, 6-7, 16-17, 18-19, Matthew 6: 7-15

Today's three readings have sent uplifting messages to me.

Isaiah's reading mentions rain and snow falling on the earth, which moistens the ground. This enables seed planted by sowers to take root and grow grain. The grain provides bread for us. Spreading the Word of God is like the planted seed. It goes out to all and shall take root everywhere and grow. It is my responsibility to help spread it.

The Psalm readings for our reflection, offers praise for deliverance from trouble. Seventeen years ago my doctors discovered a fast growing cancerous tumor on my prostate gland. My wife and I were terrified! We both prayed for help from God. After consulting with several doctors, I was treated with thirty-five radiation treatments. Today, with constant help from my doctors, I am relatively healthy. Everyday we are grateful to the Lord for the help I received.

Matthew's reading concerns how we should pray. It tells me prayer does not have to be flowery and long winded. All we have to do is pray simply as our Lord instructs us in Matthew's reading, because God knows my needs before I ask. This suggests saying the "Our Father."

Our Father, Who art in Heaven, hallowed be Thy name. Thy Kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

This prayer is sufficient if we actually do what the prayer says.

Bob Mathews, husband of Jeanne for 56 years, father of 5, grandfather of 12, Retired Civil Engineer, Parishioner for 55 years.

February 22nd, Monday, First Week of Lent

1 Peter 5: 1-4, Psalm 23: 1-3a, 4, 5, 6, Matthew 16: 13-19

In today’s readings, I’m more familiar with the last 2 readings than the first, but upon reflection let’s focus on 1 Peter 5:1-4. The imagery that comes to mind is one of a “cheerful giver”. He challenges us to “tend the flock of God in your midst…willingly…”eagerly”. We are reminded to be examples to the flock, not holier than thou! Are we not all sinners that can at times, go through the motions, sure we might be doing the right things, or saying the right phrases, but we fail to put our souls or compassion or empathy or care into gear!

Let’s call our desired state, the “Eager Shepherd”. Well this Eager Shepherd, just like the old days, has occupational hazards that they must always be on the lookout for.

In today’s hyper speed pace of life, a lot of external information, usually truncated in some fashion, seems to be inundating us. And keeping up with this can be overwhelming -- unless our moral compasses are properly calibrated, unless we are vigilant about protecting our attention spans. We must keep our focus on the Good Shepherd and on the “flock of God” so that we do not get calloused or desensitized to the human condition. Then and only then, can the cheerful giver or the eager Shepherd tend their flocks.

What’s interesting about the other two readings is that they provide the meaning for what an eager Shepherd is all about in the first place. Keep in mind, we are a resurrection people. If these passages don’t make you salivate for salvation…I don’t what will.

From reading #2: “Only goodness and kindness will follow me all the days of my life and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord for years to come.”

From reading #3: “I will give you the keys to the kingdom of heaven”.

So, all you eager Shepherd’s, if you are planning for that big train ride to the promised land, keep fueling that faith furnace to keep that train moving…keep smiling and spread that good news to all your fellow travelers and keep that joy and remember…This Train Is Bound For Glory!

Your humble eager shepherd…

Tom Moore, Husband to Shawn, Father to Tommy, Cody, Megan, and Shannon, brother to all.

February 21st, Sunday, First Week of Lent

Deuteronomy 26: 4-10, Psalm 91: 1-2, 10-11, 12-13, 14-15, Romans 10: 8-13, Luke 4: 1-13

“Therefore, I have now brought you the first fruits of the products of the soil which you O Lord, had given me. And having set them before the Lord, your God, you shall bow down in his presence.”

This Scripture is a challenge. I had to read and reflect, and wonder if I was hearing the message correctly or is it that I am drawn to my conclusion because of my own experiences of rich faith and trust? Trusting the Lord, to help me, prepare me and bless me with the tools to prosper from my immediate situation.

Early in my life I was faced with great sadness at the death of my brother. A fun loving, young, and wonderful brother. I could not understand how these feelings of pain and loss could ever result in anything good?

“He brought us out of Egypt with His strong hand and outstretched arm, with terrifying power, with signs and wonders.”

As the years passed, and the pain of loss still present, I could see the wonder of His work. In experiencing the pain and loss, I had become a different person. I could better understand other people’s sadness, pain and loss. He helped me become a more compassionate, trusting person. This has allowed me to experience the richness of deep friendship and love. I trust in Him that the pain early in my life prepared me for my later rich life.

The lesson of TRUST, has allowed me to pull from the pain and see the wonder of His work. Like when we were first married and we desperately wanted a baby, all of the excitement of being pregnant came to a screeching halt after six months of pregnancy and there was no heartbeat. I had to TRUST in Him that He would carry me through the loss, grief and pain. The many, many days and months of sadness that followed tested my thought-He would not put me through this without a reason?

My Mother, my spiritual guidance counselor, reminded me to “TRUST in God, and He will guide you, worry is lack of TRUST in God.” Once again, my Mom was right! He has guided me to be a better, more enriched friend, Mother and believer. This along with life experiences has allowed me to see the WONDER of God, even when it might be painful.

Jane Lambesis, wife of Peter, mother of Annie, Susie and Peter, grateful daughter, Truster of the Lord

February 20th, Saturday after Ash Wednesday

Isaiah 58: 9b-14, Psalm 86: 1-2, 3-4, 5-6, Luke 5: 27-32

Oftentimes we get so wrapped up in material items that we “lose” God. Among the shopping, the activities, and the running from place to place, God often becomes pushed into the back of our minds even though He is the reason for our life on earth. However, God has subtle ways of reminding us that He is here. If we look close, we can “find” Him in the other people around us.

At school, everyone is involved in the “Pay It Forward” project. It entails that if someone does you a favor, instead of paying the favor “back,” you pay it “forward” by doing a favor for someone else. In this way, kindness and care are circulated; one small good deed can catalyze a chain reaction of good deeds.

Love can be passed from person to person by something as small as a friendly smile or a thoughtful compliment. By “paying forward” our happiness to others, we all celebrate the joy of being alive in God’s presence. While God is not here with us as His own physical Person, He is here in the arms of a friend or family member, in the praise of a teacher or colleague, and even in the warm smile of a stranger. God can be found in everyone if we just take a few seconds to stop and look. We keep God alive in our hearts by “paying it forward.”

Elaina Grott, sister to Meghan, Hannah, and Abby; senior at Prospect High School

February 19th, Friday after Ash Wednesday

Isaiah 58: 1-9a, Psalm 51: 3-4, 5-6ab, 18-19, Matthew 9: 14-15

These are the types of readings that make me uncomfortable. Probably because I spend more time ‘thinking’ about how to be a better Christian than I spend ‘being’ one. I’m a busy guy and just when I think I’ve got enough on my plate, I hear these readings and they remind me to get up and get out – they remind me to do something for someone else. I’m not very good at doing these things on my own. I suspect, if left to my own, I’d spend a lot of time in my house or at my job and very little time reaching out beyond myself and trying to be an agent of change for those around me. Luckily, my wife is not like me and through her good example, I’ve learned to be a bit better at serving those around me. Kathleen, my wife, has taught me that in addition to the ‘big’ things (like donating time and money to those in need) that there are a thousand little ways to bring a light into the lives of those around us. She’s great at listening to others and hearing when there is a need (sometime an unspoken need) and acting on it. She’s a true friend to others. She volunteers her time and she works hard at being a role model for our children. Through her example, I’m reminded that I need to share my time with our church and our community. She’s also helped me understand the value of spending time with my kids both at home and as a coach for their sporting activities. She’s taught me that none of us is more ‘just’ than the other, but she’s shown me that by helping others in small ways that we can keep ourselves truly alive and healthy.

Not turning your back on others. “Then your light shall break forth like the dawn and your wound shall quickly be healed.”

Fred Schafer is darn lucky to be married to Kathleen Schafer. Together we have three great kids: Mary, Theresa and Charlie.

February 18th, Thursday after Ash Wednesday

Deuteronomy 30: 15-20, Psalm 1: 1-2, 3, 4 and 6, Luke 9: 22-25

Following yesterday’s symbolism of ashes, today our readings all point to a central theme of “choice.” In Deuteronomy, we hear that “set before us are life and prosperity, death and doom” – “the blessing and the curse” but we are challenged to “choose life.”

Psalms offers us “happy those who do not follow…the wicked. Rather the law of the Lord is their joy.” Here my thoughts simply focused on “love God” and “love others as you love yourself.” The reading continues with “a tree planted near (life-giving) water yields fruit and prospers.” Following that through, such fruit would provide life-giving nutrients and accordingly sustain life for more than just itself.

And in Luke we hear “If anyone wishes to come after me,” they must deny themselves, take up their cross and “follow me.”

As I reflect on today’s readings, I see a blueprint for not only our Lenten journey, but our life’s journey as well. What path do we choose? Can you and I put away some of our less than loving habits, tendencies and actions that at times prevent us from loving as we could? Do we realize just how much a feeling of prosperity we gain by loving and nurturing others? Can we set aside wicked tendencies and strive to be more Jesus-like and follow Him?

I think at times we all get hung up with just what exactly we “give up” and deny from ourselves during Lent rather than focusing our energy on the positive actions we could take. And when we choose to do something for others, we always receive far more than we give. By helping and loving others we become like that tree planted near life-giving waters. We give the abundance of our own fruit in the form of time, talent and treasure to sustain others. If we could make another smile, help someone less fortunate than ourselves and encourage another by seeing the good of life through actions we take, clearly you and I will have heeded the challenge and the choice to “follow Him.” For me, the choice seems so obvious. The challenge is to aspire to it daily.

Larry Fujara, husband, father of 3, Administrator

February 17th, Ash Wednesday

Joel 2: 12-18, Psalm 51: 3-4, 5-6ab, 12-13, 14 and 17, 2 Corinthians 5: 20 -- 6:2, Matthew 6: 1-6, 16-18

Each year, Ash Wednesday seems like a huge stop sign to me. It tells me to step back from my daily activities and take a long look at what my young adult children call “the big picture.” Where do I stand with God and with those around me?

When I look at the “big picture” of my life I often feel overwhelmed by my omissions, thoughtlessness and selfishness. When I feel unworthy and discouraged, the prophet Joel’s message in the first reading comforts me. He tells us that God is “slow to anger and rich in kindness” in the face of all disasters, even those we have created in our own lives. God is always there, saying “even now, return to me with your whole heart.”

As we turn to God, He asks us to acknowledge the truth of how we stand before him. We ask him for the wisdom to know our own inmost being. As we come to better understand our relationship to Him and to the others in our lives, we know we have to change how we act and pray: to repent. Matthew’s gospel tells us that these changes should not be showy, but they should be sincere, and long-lasting.

My biggest problem with Lent is that after I pass the Ash Wednesday stop sign—after looking hard at my life, telling God how sorry I am, and asking Him to help me change things—I begin to pick up speed and slip back into old habits. This Lent I will ask God to help my spirit be steadfast through the six long weeks of this “acceptable time”, so that I will slow down and prepare well for the Easter miracle.

Kathy Swedo, married to Ray, mother of Barb, Liz and Zach

LENTEN WORSHIP SCHEDULE 2010

WEEKEND LITURGIES
Saturday (anticipated) 5:15 pm
Sunday—6:45 am, 8:00 am, 9:30 am and 11:15 am

MORNING LITURGIES
Monday - Friday 7:00 am
Saturday—8:00 am

EUCHARISTIC CHAPEL FOR PRIVATE PRAYER
Monday - Friday 6:30 am—10:00 pm
Saturday—6:30 am—5:00 pm
Sunday—1:00 pm—10:00pm

ASH WEDNESDAY — February 17, 2010
7:00 am—Mass—w/ashes
8:15 am—Mass—w/ashes
12:15 pm—Ash Wednesday Prayer Service– w/ashes
4:30 pm—Ash Wednesday Prayer Service– w/ashes
7:00 pm—Mass—w/ashes

LENTEN EVENING LITURGIES
Monday, Wednesday & Thursday 7:00 pm (during Lent)

“HOLY PLACES OF LENT”
Tuesday 7:00 pm (during Lent)
(except Tuesday, March 16th)

STATIONS OF THE CROSS
Friday 7:00 pm (during Lent)
(except Friday, March 5th)

EVENING OF LENTEN INDIVIDUAL RECONCILIATION
Tuesday, March 16th at 7:00 pm
or
INDIVIDUAL RECONCILIATION
Saturday 4:00 pm
(except Holy Saturday)